I wasn't posting on the board at that time so I sent her a PM talking about Shoegaze and saying she was inaccurate about a particular band being so, but I was gracious noting that she actually probably was aware of it. Several weeks passed and i came back to the board. She posted with me when she came back and was nice and engaging to me. When I came back, I had ended my marriage, had a bit of confidence and posted pictures...I also started warming up to grid. That's when I was put on Ignore. If she still has the PM I sent I her about Shoegaze, I give her full permission to post it, but i did send that thing quite a few weeks(a few months maybe) before she douched me.