Wwent on a second date with a man and he took my money

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  1. JessOnCrack

    JessOnCrack Active Member

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    I need your advice guys.
    I think I'm an attractive girl *me in the avi*, not sayin I'm perfect at all, but def not a dog, I'm nice, good at conversation, try to look put together blah blah blah
    Ok. I went on a date with a man and our first date was just for sharing desserts and I ordered a martini. When the bill came he took care of it.
    Our second date, a couple of days later, we went back to the same restaurant, but we ordered meals. I got two drinks, a BLT and we shared a dessert.
    Some background, this guy has a good job, i know he makes over 100k a year, obviously I don't know what his bills or financial obligations are (but from the number of beers he drinks he can't be THAT strapped for cash)..and me, i went back to school for the year, and im a waitress part time. he knows this and we always talk about my crappy tips and how going back to finish my degree has hurt my finances. I also know he said he's lonely, doesn't date a lot etc. So I THOUGHT he'd treat the girl he CAN get well
    the date is going well...and when the cheque comes i make the ovature to give him some money, I give him $25 which was actually the tips i made for my whole crappy shift...and HE TAKES IT!
    I was really suprised! he took is and said "thanks, i'll take care of the rest", and puts the whole bill on the card. About 10 minutes later, he says something to the effect, "I appreciate you sharing the cheque" and I just smiled or said something, instead of screaming like i wanted to. I wanted to tell him I hope that $25 was worth the pussy he never gonna get! I was really shocked, and hurt. i thought he'd insist on paying since this is our second date, and first full meal.

    I know men say women believe in equality when it suits them, but don't want to be equal when the bill comes. But, I mean, c'mon?
    I went to see the movie with him after but didn't touch. As soon as the man who makes 10x more than me took my whole earnings for the day my vagina dried up. Please tell me what you think guys (and girls)!
    i feel WORTHLESS, AND VALUELESS AND MEANINGLESSSSSSSSSSSSS
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  2. stripes

    stripes New Member VIP

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    latest shitmult says what?
  3. NotMyBro

    NotMyBro Moderator Staff Member

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    Time to find another man.
  4. stripes

    stripes New Member VIP

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    three fingered fake boobs says what
  5. stripes

    stripes New Member VIP

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    trashy hair, stoopud hat & glasses says what?
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    cbeefyt New Member

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    Is the crackle barrel that expensive?
  7. Dump Button

    Dump Button Coupon Gold

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    So if he didn't take your money then you would have knocked the boots with him tonite
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    mike25 New Member VIP

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    my fucking sister does shit like this. she says stuff and then i am just suppose to know i am suppose to insist. some of us guys are a little dense, could you be upfront about stuff please.

    for example, my sis tells me it is ok for me to not wait for her. so i text "i can leave". she says "i guess". i text "ok". later on, she is fucking pissed and said, "i thought you would have stayed. i don't want to force you to stay, i wanted you to want to stay :facepalm:"
  9. bigkitty

    bigkitty New Member Shot Dead

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    Amen. I wouldn't see him again. I think you were being polite by offering to pay. If he was really into you, he would have thanked you for offering and then paid the bill (especially considering his income). I hate to be blunt, but he's just not that into you. It has NOTHING to do with your looks. It has everything to do with him and what he likes. Just take this as an experience and move on.
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    Lou Skunt ____________________ Gold

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    Ditto. Real men pick up the tab and treat you like a princess (even after we get the panties off). I hope you didn't give up the goods already.
  11. stripes

    stripes New Member VIP

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    huh? wtf? you're fucking your sister?
  12. JessOnCrack

    JessOnCrack Active Member

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    Thank you! and I would agree if he had not wanted to see me again and paid for the first date. I guess my worth is 1 drink and 1 dessert hahaha
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    stripes New Member VIP

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    it looks like the goods are cawk & balls
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    it is an example of woman logic :grad:

    and btw, despite your cynicism mr mult hunter, i know girl logic when i see it. the OP is definitely female.
  15. JessOnCrack

    JessOnCrack Active Member

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    No, it was only our second date. I was horny and considering it, but still like to take my time.
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    jgard Well-Known Member

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    I guess you can hate on her and what not but I mean damn if you are into a chick, how do you allow them to pay for anything at all?
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    :giggle:
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    mike25 New Member VIP

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    the rules for our generation are either half-half if you don't want to see her again and full if you do. the era of the man always pays the bill is a bit compromised with the feminist movement imo :dontknow:
  19. Lostronaut

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    Maybe he's Dutch

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  20. DogStar69

    DogStar69 Well-Known Member

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    You shouldn't have put out









    the $25. :dadance:

    The guy is a jerk, any guy that asks the girl out and doesn't insist on paying for it is a cunt.

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