I speak only for myself and as a parent. Being a Father is the biggest test I ever had of my strength, character, and emotions. I did not always do great but I did about the best I could do. It is an impossible divide, I think, between people that have children and those who don't-almost at a genetic level. Your sense of what is important and even what is fun change as you see another person go from helplessness to innocence to awareness. If you didn't experience it, it is impossible to explain. If you have experienced it, no explanation is necessary.
Why can't you loudly fuck your wife when your kids are awake and cum violently like Nick Manning?
I do and honestly there are times I go limp thinking my 4 yr old is awake and will come down soon and walk in.
Not totally limp but softer. We are on a different floor and have a bad habit of leaving door open. Wife is also vocal when she orgasms which is most of the time.....not bragging lol