Advice please! Email him or ignore...

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  1. cetiya

    cetiya Lunatic VIP

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    So there's this guy I've seen 5 times. He didn't thrill me and I obviously didn't thrill him either. He cancelled the last two times we were supposed to get together. Then I didn't hear from him in a couple months so I figured that was that. Now he's starting to email me again. I've ignored them because I don't really want to say I'm not interested in seeing him again but I feel guilty ignoring him. Should I just keep ignoring him and he'll get the clue?
     
  2. meanredhed

    meanredhed Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    I think you should just be honest with him and tell him you don't feel anything and that you should both move on.
     
  3. Dan

    Dan Do you like my car?

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    I'm going to sleep on this and get back to you.
     
  4. FSFN

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    Height, weight, cup size please.
     
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  5. Pooh bear

    Pooh bear Well-Known Member VIP

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    This tread has potential :bigthink
    @Jayla do you agree?
     
  6. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    You're both playing the "I don't want to be vulnerable" game, so neither one of you wants to stick your neck out and take a chance at being rejected.
     
  7. Pooh bear

    Pooh bear Well-Known Member VIP

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    Do you feel any type of chemistry with him??
     
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    HowieStearn HateClub

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    I'm gonna shoot both of you :eek:
     
  9. Slow

    Slow My name is my name DawgShed News

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    do you have jungle fever? if not, i'm not sure i see this thread going anywhere good.
     
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  10. PI Nate

    PI Nate Disenfranchised since 1984... Gold

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    ignore, why waste any more time.
     
  11. Slickwoody

    Slickwoody Well-Known Member

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    Just tell him 'thanks' but that you are dating someone now and that you will keep his email. (of course you wont but its an easy let down) If he emails again in a few months tell him youre engaged.....
     
  12. Lucky Pierre

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    My advice to him is to avoid you. My advice to you is to avoid him. My advice to both of you is to address the real reason why you're single and focus on that.
     
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  13. Petal

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    Speaking for the Shed women, if the situation was reversed, how would you want him to handle it/respond? Then do that...

    You can't go wrong with the "do unto others" thing...

    And for the Shed men, I'll speak for them as well: send him boob pics. ;)
     
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    What kinda e-mails. Just small talk? Is he talking about getting together? Dick pics?
     
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    señor pedro El Chocha Master Bee Ay Pii Gold

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    iggy..it's easier
     
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    Give it time....
     
  18. Pooh bear

    Pooh bear Well-Known Member VIP

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    Gets em every time :bounce:
     
  19. Jayla

    Jayla Ou ai-je l'esprit? Gold

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    You're not into him, he's not into you. He cancelled and blew you off for months. Ignore him, yeah. It's sweet that you want to be polite. I guess if it means THAT much to you, say hello and keep it super cool.
     
  20. Jayla

    Jayla Ou ai-je l'esprit? Gold

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    She said - they don't. :)