Affairs are good for marraiges & i agree.

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  1. stripes

    stripes Active Member Banned User

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    Sociologist says cheat on your spouse for a lasting marriage

    5 hrs ago
    Forget marriage counselors, the key to marital bliss is committing adultery. That’s according to bestselling author and sociologist Catherine Hakim’s new book, “The New Rules: Internet Dating, Playfairs and Erotic Power” that advises us to go out and have an affair to make our marriages last a la the sexy French. Hakim says America’s divorce rate of around 50 percent can be chalked up to our uptight attitude, and that a few “playfairs” would remedy the situation with a little “excitement,” “eroticism” and “adventure” to boot. (Nope, no mention of STDs.) The sassy Hakim goes as far as to put a value of $50K on once-a-week sex and says, “Sex is no more a moral issue than eating a good meal.” [Source]
     
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  2. Apple the cat

    Apple the cat Moral conscience of the Shed

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    Yeah, affairs are great... until you get caught!!!!
     
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    this! busted...not so much fun after that
     
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    tomtom Well-Known Member

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    Come home with crabs, the clap or aids and try convincing your significant other you were doing it for the better of the marriage.
     
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    jackie the jerk Not Mexican VIP

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    No you ask who SHE has been fucking around with.
     
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    marriage is on the way out
     
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    keywordpk Perpetual Geek Gold

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    RobsDad Well-Known Member VIP

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    According to Jesse Ventura....and I quote...

    "It ain't cheating, if you don't get caught"
     
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    Dave Well-Known Member

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    Dude this is fucking awesome news!
     
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    walleye Active Member Banned User

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    No comment
     
  11. stripes

    stripes Active Member Banned User

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    to be honest, i couldn't care less who my little blonde wife fucks as long as she keeps fucking me, becaus i know i will always fuck every little slut that spreads her legs for me. its just sex folks.
     
  12. tomtom

    tomtom Well-Known Member

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    Two problems with this:

    If she isn't cheating..............she will argue to the bitter end that she isn't cheating

    If she is cheating....she will argue to the bitter end that she isn't cheating.
     
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    Ashley Madison, find your lovers here!!!!!!!!! :cheer2: