after a drunken mishap ive lost desire to drink

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  1. synch22

    synch22 Well-Known Member

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    Its been almost a month. I got very drunk at a party and made an ass of myself ( I was a jerk) at 3am to the host.
    I realized the next morning I was way off, it was a bad atmosphere and I lost control.
    I have not been that drunk in 10+ yrs and through the embarassement , I realized I am a parent now and what I did was uncalled for.
    So since I've had only 3 beers and the desire is not there. Beer was not what caused the incident, but yet I feel like I may be done. Anyone else phased out in this manner?

    BTW I was fortunate being embarrassed was the worst thing to happen, I made it home by foot with a badly sprained ankle in the wee hours of the morning. Very irresponsible behavior.
     
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  2. Mark Mayonnaise

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    Stevie Now go...Ohm.

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    Hi Sal...
     
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    don't give up so easy hang in there and keep drinking
     
  6. A Succulent Chinese Meal

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    What did you say to the host, you nut?!
     
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    Robert of Trawr! :derp:
     
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    you made it to 3 am
    you're a better man than me
     
  9. synch22

    synch22 Well-Known Member

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    If the party has a frat atmosphere, every liquour open on a table, jello shots and other favors....isn't an asshole or 2 expected by the end of the night. 3 am?

    I should have left with my wife @12 but was encouraged to stay by hosts wife who invited me.
     
  10. mikehal121

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    Nope.

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  11. synch22

    synch22 Well-Known Member

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    I'm sure that was me and I became an ass when the guy and his buddy were pushing me to leave.... I was like why and refused for a bit.

    Shit talk to me nice, give me a bottle of water and I'm on my way. But if I'm fucked up and now 2 guys are in my face pushing me to leave.. I'm gonna be a dick about it. Nothing physical I just said I'm going to hang a bit longer to which he was pissed about.
     
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    Do you have OCD man? It sounds like you do since you are treating this like the end of the world. Get it out of your mind and never think of it again.

    In other words, who gives a fuck? We are all human and we all step in shit.
     
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    pretty sure he's looking to be told that its ok for him to have a drink again
     
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    synch22 Well-Known Member

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    Yeah u have a point. Its lingered in my head a bit since I see the guys wife and now she won't speak to me, accepted my apology but that's it.
     
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    At least he didn't attack a guy for no reason at a bar :whistle:
     
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    sugar water
     
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    Then they weren't the friends you thought they were. Real friends forgive and forget. It's not like you do this on a regular basis.
     
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    Gosh, I sure do miss drinking...
     
  20. synch22

    synch22 Well-Known Member

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    had a few beers but it just doesn't taste like it did. I think embarrassing my wife and kids is what hit me hard.
    I didn't say I've quit but I've noticed the desire fading. I