Okay....please don't be too brutal, you guys So...I'm engaged. Me and my guy are having a few issues. One thing that REALLY bothers me is my engagement ring and his half ass proposal. We both make the same money...about out a hundred grand. We're in our 40's...I have a mortgage and he's been living with his parents since his last marriage dissolved. He has spent close to 20 grand on his car. .to make it faster... He spent $8500 on my ring. The center stone is 3/4 carat and the setting has 16 diamonds equalling 1/4 carat. People have actually commented on how small my ring is..I guess because people know what we make. I'm trying to get past this, but I'm kind of ashamed to admit that it really burns me up. He plans on getting rid of his car in a couple of years....my engagement ring is forever. So....lay it on me...am I an unreasonable bitch or do I have a valid "issue"