Annnnd... it's over.

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  1. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    I shall transpose the text exchange, which started this afternoon (after several days of not speaking after he was mean/irrational)...

    HIM: So you're just never going to talk to me again

    ME: I was waiting for you. I said I wanted to talk n figure it out, when you were ready.
    (And I still do).

    HIM: You said you didn't wanna talk

    ME: I said I was trying to have a serious conversation about a relationship I believe in... and that until you were ready to address it, I didn't wanna talk. (Because I felt you were getting angry). Read back. I was waiting for you.

    HIM: Yea well all it seems like is you want to move on and find your next fuck. If you havent already. <---(WTF is thaaaat??! :eek: )

    ME: Not at all. I don't know why you'd think that of me but that hurts.
    I've been doing nothing. I've been patiently waiting to hear from you and it's taken all I've got not to text u.

    HIM: No that's a lie just like so many things you have told me.

    ME: What are y talking about?? <---( I honestly have NO idea. WTF??!)
    Seriously I'd like to know. That accusation hurts me so bad.

    *an hour or more of silence*

    ME: Well please text me when you feel like responding. I'll be headed home in a few...
     
  2. Lemmy

    Lemmy Douchebag Extraordinaire Gold

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  3. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    1st page! :cheer:
     
  4. Mr. Potato Head

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    Sorry to hear that.
     
  5. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    ...HIM: What do you even wanna talk about?

    ME: Why you feel the way you do. If this relationship can be saved.
    ME: You know, I just had kind of a moment of clarity... If you LITERALLY think that the last week and a half I've been looking to "find my next fuck, if I haven't already", then we really have nothing to talk about.
    If that's how you really feel then u don't know me or US at all and you've hurt me badly and it's over. Because I don't deserve that. I've never wronged you.

    HIM: You're a liar.

    ME: That's not true and IDK where all this is coming from, especially so suddenly after nearly a year, but if that's you you feel then I'm sorry u feel that way. And I'm sorry to say it's over but it is.

    HIM: Exactly what u wanted. Now you won't have to feel bad about worrying about where you're gonna find your next fuck.

    ME: Not at ALL what I wanted. And how dare you?!
    It's a shame you've let your insecurities ruin a great thing. Maybe some day you'll see that, and realize how much I loved you.

    HIM: Bullshit...
     
  6. Harry Gibbs

    Harry Gibbs the boss of all men

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    tough stuff.
     
  7. harlock

    harlock ancora imparo Gold

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    it seems like he wants you to dump him so he won't be the bad guy. or something.
     
  8. Doctor Ivan

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    You're young and attractive... time to move on to a better situation.
     
  9. zingger

    zingger Judge and jury Gold

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    Jesus that's a lot of texting.
     
  10. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    ...ME: You're being cruel. And I don't need any more of it. Goodbye, *guy's name*.

    HIM: Yea I'm so cruel. It was so cruel of me to be honest with you and not play bullshit games but you. Well you're a saint.

    ME: You are being cruel and I said goodbye. I'm hurting enough and I don't need these unfair accusations on top of it. I've been honest with you and good to you, and if you think otherwise I can't help that. But I'm done and I don't need to be insulted anymore.

    HIM: This whole relationship started with lies from you but whatever. You're right it's over.

    ME: Not true. But if that's how u felt then, it was really nice of you to let it go for a year, to give me time to fall in love with you, support you, grow to love your family, as well as the puppy to whom you referred to me as "mommy" ...all while thinking I'm a liar and doubting our sustainability. Yea. Real nice. Goodbye.

    HIM: You tolerate my family. I loved you and tried to make it work but all you did was care about sex and then bitch about it among other things. And I could make a list of the bogus shit you've said to me. You're a damn liar like every woman I've ever known. <--- (I can explain the "sex" thing then)

    ME: I do love your family. I'm nicer to them than you are... not like that's saying much.

    HIM: What are you fucking 12. Grow up I don't need your petty bullshit.

    ME: Sorry just being honest. Goodnight.

    HIM: For the first time in your life. <--- (saw that coming a mile away.)
     
  11. Swedish John

    Swedish John I'm your huckleberry

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    :dancin:

    Sorry Dev, but this is for the best. You know you have friends here. Lean on us.

    [video=youtube;QPoTGyWT0Cg]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPoTGyWT0Cg[/video]
     
  12. Danas Boyfrien

    Danas Boyfrien Trump's African American Gold

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    [video=youtube_share;rk1IKHd_0fk]http://youtu.be/rk1IKHd_0fk[/video]
     
  13. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    I know. It went on from like 2-10. We put in a whole shift.
     
  14. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    He sounds like a faggit. No offense.
     
  15. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    Thanks, guys. :)

    I'm sadder than I thought I'd be. I thought after all this time I'd just be relieved.
    BUT I'm also mad. And I AM a little relieved that there's some resolution.
    Just sucks that it ended so badly, and I'm SO confused by it... I literally think it's demons of girlfriends past that have done us in.
     
  16. Lou Loomis

    Lou Loomis Feel the Gern

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    What are the sex complaints ?
     
  17. Stevie

    Stevie Now go...Ohm.

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    Sooooooooooooooooooo...
     
  18. Avery

    Avery Well-Known Member Banned User

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    You should go on a singles cruise with Clutch.
     
  19. zingger

    zingger Judge and jury Gold

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    Fuck him anyway. We told you the other night that he was just trying to figure out how to break it off without being the bad guy. Sounds like he's just throwing out a bunch of convoluted bullshit.
     
  20. Satori Brah

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    Clutch is going on a "singles voyage" :dontknow: