Anyone else avoiding their mother today?

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  1. Lemmy

    Lemmy Douchebag Extraordinaire Gold

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    that's sad :depressed:
     
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    P-B Honourary Canuck Gold

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    Saw her yesterday at a family function, called her this morning, gave her an IOU on lunch.
     
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    im hungover as sin. I am dreading making this call
     
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    Mines out of town
     
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    what is this thing called a "mother"?
     
  7. Lemmy

    Lemmy Douchebag Extraordinaire Gold

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    I'm not sad. :cheer:
     
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    I wish.
     
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    Vyb serial chiller Gold

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    This. Wanna trade mom calls just for fun?
     
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    I already called my mom, now I have to go visit my grandmother
     
  11. GHP

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    I'm not digging her up if that's what you mean
     
  12. Lucky Pierre

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    Yikes!

    Why all the ill will?

    I think a lot of you might be in "punishment mode". Mom didn't do this or that when I was growing up so now as an adult I'm going to punish you with my lack of companionship.
     
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    I would but I live with her.
     
  14. Lemmy

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    Internet psychology is not your strong suit.

    After the beatings and emotional torment along with constantly letting me know that I'm not as good as my brother simply avoiding her on mother's day seems quite tame. I've often thought about being the "better person" and mending fences but I don't feel the need or obligation. She believes she is "mother if the year" so she can be happy with her delusions and my brother. I'm not "punishing" her.....I just choose to no longer punish myself by subjecting myself to her issues. :toptip:
     
  15. Satori Brah

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    you had me at beatings
     
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    I was blessed, I miss her everyday. Now, give me a shout on Father's Day, that's a whole other story :jj:
     
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    Your children gather 'round to wish you a Happy Mother's Day?

    :bully:
     
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    That is a healthy way of dealing with it, Lemmy!
     
  20. wicked smaaaht

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    My babies took me to brunch...now I must die. :puke: