Discussion in 'The Bar' started by Lemmy, May 12, 2013.
Saw her yesterday at a family function, called her this morning, gave her an IOU on lunch.
im hungover as sin. I am dreading making this call
Mines out of town
what is this thing called a "mother"?
I'm not sad.
This. Wanna trade mom calls just for fun?
I already called my mom, now I have to go visit my grandmother
I'm not digging her up if that's what you mean
Why all the ill will?
I think a lot of you might be in "punishment mode". Mom didn't do this or that when I was growing up so now as an adult I'm going to punish you with my lack of companionship.
I would but I live with her.
Internet psychology is not your strong suit.
After the beatings and emotional torment along with constantly letting me know that I'm not as good as my brother simply avoiding her on mother's day seems quite tame. I've often thought about being the "better person" and mending fences but I don't feel the need or obligation. She believes she is "mother if the year" so she can be happy with her delusions and my brother. I'm not "punishing" her.....I just choose to no longer punish myself by subjecting myself to her issues.
you had me at beatings
I was blessed, I miss her everyday. Now, give me a shout on Father's Day, that's a whole other story
Your children gather 'round to wish you a Happy Mother's Day?
That is a healthy way of dealing with it, Lemmy!
My babies took me to brunch...now I must die.