My family goes every year. My kid is an alter boy and at this point, at 18, he might be the oldest alter boy. He teaches ccd on Sundays. So anyway, I'm not Catholic. I don't know the prayers and I don't cross myself in church. One Christmas Midnight Mass, back when I would go, My family and was asked to bring up the gifts. My wife says, yes. I was like what the fuck are the gifts? Meanwhile it's a procession down the aisle with the oils and shit. FML I don't go anymore.