Anyone hate their kid ?

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  1. DuckDong

    DuckDong VIP Extreme Gold

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    Ok let me say I have four kids love them all but the 14 year old boy is a world class asshole. The younger three never fight unless oldest son is there.

    He gets straight a's and is even taking college credit classes already. All teacher reviews are great etc etc

    I'm honestly thinking of boarding or military schools as this pecker head pushes every button I have with eye rolling, arguing, truth bending, and he is the catalyst for 99.9% of every fight under this roof.

    Is this freaking normal to hate him?
     
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    Did you hate him for pooping in his diaper when he was an infant? :rolleye: Of course not. He was doing what he was supposed to be doing at that age. Same as he is now.

    Get a grip.

    You're welcome.
     
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    Three out of four is damn good in my book
     
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    He picked it up somewhere.

    Brainstorm for the origin in the vicinity of a mirror or your former/present/whatever significant other of choice.
     
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    There's a good chance he'll snap out of it and become a human being and make you proud one day, but in the meantime, it's okay to hate him, just don't act like it.
     
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    Have you sat down and talked to the kid?He sounds depressed.

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    14 speaks for it self.
     
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    Sure hes not taking after daddy when he was 14
     
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    Jayla Ou ai-je l'esprit? Gold

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    Never hate. But I have one of each kind: one "Challenging" ( to say the least ) and one cooperative and easy going. The challenging one really tests my patience, but he's also the most loving and sensitive (to other ppl) of the two. Thinking about him leaving me someday melts my annoyance. Shoe and handbag shopping help too.
     
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    she looks familiar. did she piss on me last summer?
     
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    how can you hate your kids? treat them like shit, i can see but hate them? you're supposed to be the adult.
     
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    Having these feelings, I think, are normal. Children can elicit a whole host of emotions, positive and warm or otherwise. Acting on the negative feelings, however, is a different story. That's one of the many challenges of parenting, IMO.
     
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    As a parent of a child who put me through hell and still does, and sure didn't turn out the way I had envisioned when rocking him as a newborn in the nursery, but one I still love unconditionally, I find the OP title pretty damn distasteful.
     
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    I hated my parents and they hated me at that age, but when I reached my 20s things changed and my mom especially became my best friend for the rest of her life. Things will get better, just grit your teeth and hang in there. Its just normal bullshit.
     
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    Isn't this a Louis ck bit?
     
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    there's a difference between hating your parents and hating your kids. kids are supposed to hate their parents at times: its part of finding their own identity. hating your kids is basically hating yourself.
     
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    ...14? show him that you understand and get him some pussy.
     
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    I wasn't an easy kid to love, I had some trauma they didn't know about and didn't find out until I was an adult ( in my 40 s) so I don't blame them. It wasn't their fault. If they knew what I was going through things would have been different.
     
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    Do you have children?
     
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