Ok let me say I have four kids love them all but the 14 year old boy is a world class asshole. The younger three never fight unless oldest son is there. He gets straight a's and is even taking college credit classes already. All teacher reviews are great etc etc I'm honestly thinking of boarding or military schools as this pecker head pushes every button I have with eye rolling, arguing, truth bending, and he is the catalyst for 99.9% of every fight under this roof. Is this freaking normal to hate him?