Are/were you married? If yes, how is/was it?

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  1. RenchFries

    RenchFries Well-Known Member

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    I ran into an old elementary school friend I hadn't seen in years. I was surprised to find out he got married. Made me realize I'm in that age group where people start to do that shit.

    Not planning on it anytime soon, but just wondering what's the general opinion here. :coffee:
     
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  2. RH Goatcabin

    RH Goatcabin Time to pulsate. Time to yearn. 2010 OG POTY The Bar Gold

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    Married. Divorced. Good until the last year and a half.
     
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    DON'T!
     
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    Shivvy VIP Extreme Gold

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    Yes. So happy
     
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    Daveindiego Confirmed Internet Legend Banned User

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    Bro, you got nothing to worry about here.

    First steps first, like getting laid by an actual woman.
     
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    P-B Honourary Canuck Gold

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    No. It's fucking awesome.
     
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    VeeB I have a Full Member VIP

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    Married twice.

    The first one was horrible, and lasted less than two years.

    The second one is great, and we have been married for 13 years.

    I guess I just needed some practice before I got it right.
     
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    babybear r.i.p 8/3/15, Wherewolf of AZ Gold

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    38 years for us.
    one 2 1/2 year old grandson
    and a granddaughter due in Nov.
     
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    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    20 years in October and there's been some ups and downs, but currently things have never been better.

    Just know it's a marathon and not a sprint.
     
  10. RenchFries

    RenchFries Well-Known Member

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    :rolleyes:
     
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    yosemite sam Camel Jockey

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    I was married for 12 years. I prayed for cancer daily.
     
  12. RenchFries

    RenchFries Well-Known Member

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    Oh shit. Was it thay horrible?
     
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    How bad could it be to completely turn your entire soul over to another human being?

    :c
     
  14. RenchFries

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    :bigthink

    I'm getting the feeling you're not a big fan of the whole thing.
     
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    My wife and I make a great team. I couldn't have accomplished as much as I have without her along side me.
     
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    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    exception to the rule on second marriages
     
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    another exception
     
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    Both of our parents are getting older and dealing with failing health. It's comforting to know we have each other to lean on when the inevitable happens.
     
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