Did your very best friend ever disappoint you?

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  1. RenchFries

    RenchFries Well-Known Member

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    Mine did, and realizing this really sucks.
     
  2. RenchFries

    RenchFries Well-Known Member

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    :artiejj:waaaaah
     
  3. PI Nate

    PI Nate Disenfranchised since 1984...

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    No, I never let anyone get close enough to disappoint me...
     
  4. Stew Nod

    Stew Nod Well-Known Member Banned User

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    “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”

    Bob Marley
     
  5. Partyxanimal

    Partyxanimal Well-Known Member

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    Yes.






    M EX was my best friend and then she went :crazy2:
     
  6. DarkFriday

    DarkFriday Guilty! Gold

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    :console:

    Open up.

    Tell us a story.

    Sometimes it help to share the pain.
     
  7. Neesie

    Neesie Princess Parliaments 2010 OG VIP Gold

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    Nobody's as perfect as you'd like to believe they are. I'm assuming this rench whateverthefuck is in their 20's, when you're still stupidly idealistic, or they wouldn't be this upset.

    Don't get me wrong. I believe to this day that most people are essentially good, but they're human and they fuck up. As long as it wasn't something heinous like stealing from you or harming you or your family, rench, think about what you and your friend have been through in the past, evaluate whether this was an out of the ordinary event or something that's likely to happen again and move from there. Don't just bail on someone for something that might have been just a mistake or a misunderstanding, or a one-time thing brought on by extenuating circumstances.

    BTW, I'm pretty buzzed, so take that into consideration too. :hhh:
     
  8. nazdrowie

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    lol wut
     
  9. Neesie

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    Not now, nazzzzzzzzzz
     
  10. Partyxanimal

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    Me too :D




    :lo5:
     
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    :booze:
     
  12. HeinousMark

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    I'm not really able to think of anyone who HASN'T disappointed me... They probably think the same of me...
     
  13. DogStar69

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    Yes, but it was nothing major nor worth getting upset about nor worth mentioning it to him. I had another friend that I wasn't that close to, he disappointed and excluded me from something so I ended the friendship, that's when I truly realized that it was all about him and he thought more highly of himself than he should have.
     
  14. Napoleon V2

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    Heart goes out to OP
     
  15. DrivenByDemons

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    yes - he died
     
  16. MissPoker

    MissPoker Active Member

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    Nop but i disappointed her last week when i forgot her birthday for 5 days!!!! i just called her and told her the truth and she understood. Im not surprised she did, she is my best friend for some reason, she understands everything and we love each other, The thing is i cant believe what i did and im still mad at me for that.
     
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    this precisely. Best friend since age 5.
     
  18. DrivenByDemons

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    sorry bra, it's hurts bad.
     
  19. gwartney

    gwartney Is there gas in the car? 2010 OG Gold

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    He always got the good looking girl. He was a charmer and good looking and I was always stuck with a fat girl. Even when we agreed beforehand who got the pretty one, he always took the good one. He has many more good attributes than bad/
     
  20. DrivenByDemons

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    I gotta be me bra