Do you send a gift if you don't go to a birthday party?

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  1. No Head Games

    No Head Games Well-Known Member

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    I got invited to a friends 45th birthday party which is 4 hours away and I am unable to attend.

    Is it proper to still send a gift for a birthday? If it was a kid I'd say defintely yes but not sure for a 45 year old.
     
  2. Mr Sinister

    Mr Sinister Gold

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    no id ignore the entire thing and not talk to the person for a few months until they forget about it
     
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  3. crazypreacher

    crazypreacher Not followin whitey's rules

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    Little kid, ya. Grown up, fuck em.
     
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  4. Gomez

    Gomez Well-Known Member

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    I tend to blow off people's birfdays.. I don't give a fuck.

    [except for my daughter's :grad: ]
     
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  5. Chriza

    Chriza The One Man Gangbang VIP

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    Do the dogshit in a burning bag on the doorstep trick.
     
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    You shouldn't bring a gift even if you did go
     
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  7. NipplesAndToes23

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    I toss my two elderly aunts and my nieces and nephews who are in college a hundie on their birthdays. I send my mom flowers and take my pap to the rodeo on their birthdays. Other than that anyone over 17 can fuck right off on their birthday if they expect a gift.
     
  8. Chriza

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    Go and punch him in his fat face.
     
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    gwartney Is there gas in the car? VIP

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    Send a stripper to the party as your gift.
     
  10. Anfkid

    Anfkid Blue Banner Mafia Staff Member

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    Next time just bring a bag of Cheez-It's like Chriza.
     
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    christ cracker Well-Known Member

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    yessss
     
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    gwartney Is there gas in the car? VIP

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    45 isn't a huge birthday like 40 or 50. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't send a gift unless it was someone i was going to send a gift to regardless.
     
  13. Shivvy

    Shivvy Well-Known Member VIP

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    Adults needing birthday presents :jj:
     
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  14. Bro

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    send a black dildo