Let mt e begin... His telling JD to not over-emphasize his honesty to his new girlfriend is paramount to the building of a solid relationship. Howard blew over King's extremely insightful point. If you are beginning a relationship. you do not need to explain your truth. Inadvertantly the truth will be told. By reminding your new partner that you are honest only disinfects her reasons for being with you in the first place. Trust your instincts and know why the girl is with you. Do not explain your Shining Star. Just shine! and your truth will be told in it's purest form, the unspoken one and that will relay your truth... your "Kwan".