Dude I knew passed away today

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  1. Chigs

    Chigs The finest in the Nation

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    Hardcore Dead tour kid. I cant really speculate on exactly what happened, but he didnt really know how to leave the party, so to speak.

    In the last few months, I have noticed that, at least the ones I know the really crazy tour folks, who wouldnt slow it down a bit, are more and more winding up in cemeteries or penitentiaries.

    I am glad Im getting older, more mature, and boring....able to calm myself down and make wise and healthy decisions
     
  2. nazdrowie

    nazdrowie THE BEE BIT MY BOTTOM NOW MY BOTTOM BIG Gold

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    lol
     
  3. baltimore mike

    baltimore mike Well-Known Member POTY The Bar

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    bbc?
     
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    CMG New Member Banned User

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    were you excited ?
     
  5. Porn Stache

    Porn Stache Active Member

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    I won't do it.
     
  6. DarkFriday

    DarkFriday Fired as a MOD...Twice. Gold

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    Shit happens brah.

    Shit happens. :coffee:
     
  7. Chigs

    Chigs The finest in the Nation

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    Haha...You were the first person I thought of when posting.

    Feel free. I lost touch with him, and he was not part of my extreme inner circle of friends....
     
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    Porn Stache Active Member

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    The moment has passed.
     
  9. Chigs

    Chigs The finest in the Nation

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    "I wont do it" is funnier anyway. I appreciate the vagueness and subtlety. Reps when able
     
  10. jonpow

    jonpow Tennessee Jed VIP

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    Dude, Jerry's been dead almost 20 fuckin years or didn't anyone tell ya
     
  11. Chigs

    Chigs The finest in the Nation

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    This kid followed Furthur and chased all the various side projects.
     
  12. FtM

    FtM Starless & Bible Black Gold

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    Hey, Chigs...I'm so sorry about your loss.

    I had a lot of Dead Touring friends and used to see a guy before I met Sweetie who had the same M.O. They always try to take themselves to the next level until they hit rock bottom and never seem to learn from past mistakes.

    Just think about the good times, I'm sure your friend was all about "the good times" and wouldn't want you to be sad. :eek:
     
  13. jonpow

    jonpow Tennessee Jed VIP

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    The only ones worth seeing were Phil when Warren or Derek played
     
  14. Chigs

    Chigs The finest in the Nation

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    Im really not sad, I saw him briefly at a Phish show about 8 months ago, but are lives were clearly becoming very different. We were never the closest of friends, but were definitely good buddies...

    More than sad, I am appreciative of the conscious decisions I have decided to make to help myself be a better person, and the levelheaded people I have surrounded myself with. There was a time in my life when I was going down a similar path, but I didnt let it happen to myself. Even though sometimes I feel like my life is kind of boring, I am happy for the quiet life I lead.
     
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    jonpow Tennessee Jed VIP

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    Buncha fuckin pussies here
     
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    FtM Starless & Bible Black Gold

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    I've been there...more than you can imagine and more than I'd bore you with the details about.
     
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    FtM Starless & Bible Black Gold

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    You are here. :coffee:
     
  18. Jack-A-Roe

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    Further is kinda shitty
     
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    jonpow Tennessee Jed VIP

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    I'm not using the death of a friend to make myself feel better about myself or to justify my boring fuckin existence
     
  20. Chigs

    Chigs The finest in the Nation

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    I agree. Fake Jerry from DSO helped, but Im still not wanting to pay the ticket price.