So your boyfriend/girlfriend has a scumbag son in his 20s and has had frequent drug abuse issues. The parent constantly enables the kid and time after time he’s bailed out of trouble with no consequences from the parent. The topic of how they handle him is off limits and causes problems in your relationship. You try to just tune out everything regarding the son because other than him things are well. So one night you’re sitting there watching local TV and they show a video of a guy roughing up an 87 year old great grandmother to steal her purse. What do you do? If you call the police to identify the son and your boyfriend/girlfriend finds out your relationship is over. You can’t lie to the boyfriend/girlfriend about telling them you told the cops if they ask. Your conscience won’t allow you to do that. If you tell the boyfriend/girlfriend they won’t do anything and will also now know you know. If you don’t do anything the kid could hurt another person. What do you do? Risk being single?