For me, she no longer wants to speak to me. I have known her 20+ years since high school and considered her my best friend for the last 6 years. We have dated at times, but always had remained friends. She was the last person I dated before I began my relationship with my wife. In the short of it, my wife and her do not see eye-to-eye. Over a year ago she texted me to never contact again without an explanation. I know there was a conversation between the 2 of them and I do not know the specifics of it. I'm still resolving on the fact that time heals all wounds.