Has anyone here had a best friend of the opposite sex and how did it turn out?

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  1. CharlotteW

    CharlotteW Member

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    For me, she no longer wants to speak to me. I have known her 20+ years since high school and considered her my best friend for the last 6 years. We have dated at times, but always had remained friends. She was the last person I dated before I began my relationship with my wife. In the short of it, my wife and her do not see eye-to-eye. Over a year ago she texted me to never contact again without an explanation. I know there was a conversation between the 2 of them and I do not know the specifics of it. I'm still resolving on the fact that time heals all wounds.
     
  2. Gretsch Man

    Gretsch Man Well-Known Member

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    Wut.
     
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    tired Well-Known Member

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    weve been marries 19 years
     
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    Yes....it sucks balls...

    She is super funny with a great ass ..
     
  6. SouthernListen

    SouthernListen I don't follow the crowd. Sorry about that. VIP

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    Maybe she's creeped out about knowing a guy named Charlotte.
     
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    Gretsch Man Well-Known Member

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    Having a chick as a best friend is a waste of time.
     
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    SouthernListen I don't follow the crowd. Sorry about that. VIP

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    Oh, and don't be friends when you're married with someone you fucked. Inappropriate.
     
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    That's pretty shitty of her. Did you ask your wife to spill the beans on what may have happened? Women are usually not thrilled w/ "their" man being friends w/ other women so maybe she sabotaged the relationship. You may wanna dump her.
    Weird how you got no explanation from the friend though. I guess you tried to ask her what the problem was and got no reply?
     
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  10. John Mahlin

    John Mahlin These go to eleven Gold

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    If sex isn't involved, whats the point.
     
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    I did for like two months once, then I banged her and lured her into my spider-web for a solid 3 and a half years before she wised up.
     
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    Gretsch Man Well-Known Member

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    Exactly.
     
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    The great old Loveline radio show taught me "friendships" between the opposite sex are usually borne from one party who doesn't want to fuck the other, and another party who wants nothing more than to fuck the other but will pathetically lap up the table scraps of nothingness just to get 5% of that deep attachment and connection they truly long for.
     
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    I never pressed my wife about, thought it would eventually come out. I would ask my friend "why" and that would be the end of the conversation
     
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    I've never been able to be "just friends" with women. It's always been about relationships.
     
  16. wife is a whore

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    the specifics are in bold...

     
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    You can only be friends with a broad if you don't jerk off to thoughts of her.

    I have never been friends with a chick, only friend zoned.
     
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    Shockingly I'm going to agree with you for once. It's the when Harry met Sally theory of life. Men and women cannot be friends without one liking the other more...
    I've never had a boy-friend that wasn't gay, that I didn't want to be with or vice-versa..... Never ever...
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    for once!?

    I'm always right. and you know dizzz, m'am.

     
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