My wife is pissed and I need to help, I really put both feet in my mouth today. She went to the salon today and got her hair dyed and cut really short today. When she came home and asked me how I like it I asked her when she turned into a lesbian and if i could get in on that action. She cussed me out, locked herself in the bedroom and isn't talking to me. I don't like her haircut at all, I liked the way she had her hair done before. Should I have lied and said it is nice even though I hated it? You would think that after 21 years of marriage I would know better and she would have thicker skin. Any tips that you can offer to get me back in her good graces so I don't miss my Wed night nookie would be appreciated.