Hey, umm... so i guess I'm your son or some shit like that.

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  1. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    I just got the email confirming my surname which will tell me exactly who my birth dad is and I'm kinda afraid to read it. :eek:. After spending the better part of a grand on it I guess I should at least open it....

    I'm not sure I want to have that conversation.
     
  2. HelloYooHoo

    HelloYooHoo Well-Known Member

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    Hmmmmm......
     
  3. blairg

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    I don't know if you're trolling with all this adoption shit, but if not, my "uncle" went through the same thing, and when he met his real family he realized he didn't give a fuck about them because he didn't grow up with them and he just cared about us, who though aren't blood, were his "family".
     
  4. Beer Can Cock

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    :cheer:
    Wow, burning through your wife's money on finding the names of people trying to get away from you.
     
  5. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    Nope, I troll a bit but this 100% legit. It's a lot easier to blow some steam about it here than expose actual shit to people I know IRL.

    Everything I've said about it is the gods honest truth.
     
  6. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    Meh, I put in a good 50 plus hours a week.
     
  7. blairg

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    well, if you're anything like my "uncle", be prepared to be disapointed. the people you grew up with are your family, it doesn't matter whos DNA you have.
     
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    Beer Can Cock Well-Known Member VIP

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    Mack, lets bury the hatch.

    Im your father.
     
  9. blairg

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    no you're not. that was stupid.
     
  10. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    Never really bonded with my adopted family other than my Granny (coolest woman ever) and my brother. My adopted dad died when I was 4 (ish).

    I'm really not trying to make a new family.. that's the thing. I don't know what I'm doing with it other than stressing myself out about it. :dontknow:
     
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    Hope you aren't disappointed with all the work and money you spent looking for your biological family. I had a friend who went through the same thing and after she fou d her drug addict mom she tried to have a relationship with her.

    The "mom". Got about 3 grand from my friend before she finally wrote her off. Just be careful Mack
     
  12. Beer Can Cock

    Beer Can Cock Well-Known Member VIP

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    You're right Blairg. Sometimes I get stupid.
     
  13. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    I guess I didn't realize we had a "beef" :dontknow:
     
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    I'm just some dude on the internet, but from my experience, my nanny took in a lot of adoptees, they were never happy when they found their "real family"
     
  15. Popeye Saavedra

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    Did your parents have any children that lived?

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  16. blairg

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    it's a shit mult.
     
  17. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    Will do. :hat:

    I'm a lot of things but naive isn't one of them. :)
     
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    Stew Nod Well-Known Member Banned User

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    Yo Mack, check this blue nose out

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  19. Phil McKrakin

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    Check out the name and google them. If they're rich, then get on it...if they're poor white trash the fugetabowdit.
     
  20. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member 2010 OG VIP

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    Alright, off I go to my CPU instead of my phone...