How do you deal with grief?

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  1. Dirty South

    Dirty South Large Member

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    Anyone? Like serious loss type stuff...
     
  2. Mark Mayonnaise

    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP Gold

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    I cum on your mother
     
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    Captain Morgan's, loved ones, and stay busy.
     
  4. Rod-Stroker

    Rod-Stroker I'm gonna rock ya till it strikes the hour Gold

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    I read a Charlie Brown comic
     
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    FatKidSullivan Smoking Cigars

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    Initially drink heavily.

    Then, try to find someone empathetic that you can talk to. Usually helps if they aren't directly involved in the situation. A friend that is close but not part of it, say.

    You're not going to find any help here.

    Sorry if something bad happened to you, pal.
     
  6. Rod-Stroker

    Rod-Stroker I'm gonna rock ya till it strikes the hour Gold

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    Mourning the loss of a loved one ?
     
  7. XuXu

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    I've dealt with it pretty poorly in years past, but now I try and think of what I would want people to do if it was me and do that. At least I try to anyway. It's not easy.
     
  8. NipplesAndToes23

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    I stick
    my dick in someone when I'm feeling bad.
     
  9. crazypreacher

    crazypreacher Not followin whitey's rules

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    You gave that sentence a good dicking.
     
  10. Mark Mayonnaise

    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP Gold

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    He fucked it into the next line
     
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    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP Gold

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    There's a "walking straight" joke in there somewhere
     
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    lol
     
  13. Oderus

    Oderus Going to hell VIP

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    Just focus on the good times :boohoo:

    [video=youtube;KItsYhjAW-c]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KItsYhjAW-c[/video]
     
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    It was a two sentence poem. I am an artist.
     
  15. FtM

    FtM Starless & Bible Black Gold

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    Time.
     
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    Dang I'm a rube.
     
  17. Mack

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    I put it behind me and move on... no looking back, bro.
     
  18. Judsy

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    In the last 15 years I lost my father, my mother, my wife and my only brother. The only one that didn't die was the wife.
    Lots of Whiskey, Vodka and Natty Ice. Gardening, hunting, fishing and my dogs helped me keep my mind off of it for the most part.
    There is no other answer unless you want to go the God way.
     
  19. Mack

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    My dog earned his keep when my mom recently passed.
     
  20. Daveindiego

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    OMG. Is this serious? WTF happened. OMG. OMG. OMG.

    Are you totally thinking of how Karma really is a bitch? :smile:
    Really? Cuz for me its IN his mother.