How do you deal with grief?

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  1. Dirty South

    Dirty South Large Member

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    Anyone? Like serious loss type stuff...
     
  2. Mark Mayonnaise

    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP

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    I cum on your mother
     
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    crazypreacher Spoon! Gold

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    Captain Morgan's, loved ones, and stay busy.
     
  4. Rod-Stroker

    Rod-Stroker Streptococcus Gingivitis Halllllllllllllitosis

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    I read a Charlie Brown comic
     
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    FatKidSullivan Smoking Cigars

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    Initially drink heavily.

    Then, try to find someone empathetic that you can talk to. Usually helps if they aren't directly involved in the situation. A friend that is close but not part of it, say.

    You're not going to find any help here.

    Sorry if something bad happened to you, pal.
     
  6. Rod-Stroker

    Rod-Stroker Streptococcus Gingivitis Halllllllllllllitosis

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    Mourning the loss of a loved one ?
     
  7. XuXu

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    I've dealt with it pretty poorly in years past, but now I try and think of what I would want people to do if it was me and do that. At least I try to anyway. It's not easy.
     
  8. Danas Boyfrien

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    I stick
    my dick in someone when I'm feeling bad.
     
  9. crazypreacher

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    You gave that sentence a good dicking.
     
  10. Mark Mayonnaise

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    He fucked it into the next line
     
  11. Mark Mayonnaise

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    There's a "walking straight" joke in there somewhere
     
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    lol
     
  13. Oderus

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    Just focus on the good times :boohoo:

    [video=youtube;KItsYhjAW-c]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KItsYhjAW-c[/video]
     
  14. Danas Boyfrien

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    It was a two sentence poem. I am an artist.
     
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    FtM Starless & Bible Black Gold

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    Time.
     
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    Dang I'm a rube.
     
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    I put it behind me and move on... no looking back, bro.
     
  18. Judsy

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    In the last 15 years I lost my father, my mother, my wife and my only brother. The only one that didn't die was the wife.
    Lots of Whiskey, Vodka and Natty Ice. Gardening, hunting, fishing and my dogs helped me keep my mind off of it for the most part.
    There is no other answer unless you want to go the God way.
     
  19. Mack

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    My dog earned his keep when my mom recently passed.
     
  20. Daveindiego

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    OMG. Is this serious? WTF happened. OMG. OMG. OMG.

    Are you totally thinking of how Karma really is a bitch? :smile:
    Really? Cuz for me its IN his mother.