My mom is pushing 80 and lives by herself. She's on every kind of medication you can think of and nods off all the time, even while driving. I'm worried about her constantly and her craziness is really ruining my life, financially and otherwise. Lately I've been trying to introduce the subject of a partial care facility but she just freaks out and accuses me of trying to get rid of her, bad son etc. I own the house she lives in and i've really bent over backwards for the last 20 years or so to take care of her financial problems and health issues but its getting to the point where its starting to take me down too. I realise that no matter what I do i'm going to be an asshole but any advice on how to soften the blow and get this done would be appreciated.