.. Based on the behaviors & lifestyles many of you lead, my intuition's telling me that number's gonna be north of 70%. So, I'm hoping you can offer some advice....... I'm a self-admitted superficialist. The broads I go with must be in shape, and generally more physically attractive that the average woman. Their appearance has (more times than not) superseded personality... Which has gotten me into more than a few unpleasant situations. What I'd like to know is, how do you do it???? ... How do you see past the double chin, or the tree-trunk calves ??? How do you overlook the large nose with the kink in the middle?....How do you ignore the mole (with the dangling black hair) growing out of the side of her neck?? ...How do you not get skeeved out when you see her size 6XX stretchy-shorts laying on bathroom floor??? In my hopes, at some point in the future, to get re-married, I expect I may have to lower my standards a notch or two (not to the extremes most of you have invariably gone to, mind you)..... I'm just not quite sure of how to bring myself to be attracted to a "type" that I've not historically found all that attractive ... God Bless. . .