I can't get a girlfriend. I feel like fucking crying

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  1. garypagetwo

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    I'm starting to have feelings for the 39 year old woman I'm seeing, but I know she's not interested in dating. She just thinks the sex is fun, and I know it's only a matter of time before she finds another guy. I'm her first "younger" guy and she finds it exciting but she also tells me about all the other young guys who contact her on the dating website and I fake laugh as if its funny but really it hurts. I want to tell her we should be exclusive, and that I really like her, but I think maybe she likes the attention she's starting to get.

    It hurts me because her and I have talked a lot, and she's told me everything it feels like. I feel I know her well and that we would be good together, but then she tells me about other guys she talking to. When I lose her, I'll have no one again. She came to my place Saturday and we made dinner together (her recipe), drank wine, and had really good sex. She slept on me naked in my bed for many hours but I couldn't sleep because I'm used to being up till 7am doing fuckall on the internet. She left at 4am and I followed her to a cab outside. The next morning she texted me and said I was getting really good. That meant a lot because the first night we had sex I was coming off a 2year+ dry streak and I was nervous as fuck and didn't know what the fuck I was doing.

    I like her but I don't think she likes me like that :( I mean, when we meet up and talk it does, and she'll say things like I'm really mature for my age and whatever, but then she'll tell me about the other guys again.

    I've only had one girlfriend in my life, and she was a shallow bitch. I don't know where to go from here, but I feel sad.
     
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    no you don't
     
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    Cry harder faggot!
     
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    I got one! :woot: :owned:
     
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    go ghey

    mario is cute
     
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    Haven't you done this thread already?
     
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    order a pizza
    help take the pain away
     
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    I'm happy for you bro. I've never known what it's like to have a loving girlfriend.
     
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    Here's a little secret.

    Women love money.
     
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    Go take a sauna Gary. Faggot
     
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    I'm starting to have feelings for the 39 year old woman I'm seeing, but I know she's not interested in dating. She just thinks the sex is fun, and I know it's only a matter of time before she finds another guy. I'm her first "younger" guy and she finds it exciting but she also tells me about all the other young guys who contact her on the dating website and I fake laugh as if its funny but really it hurts. I want to tell her we should be exclusive, and that I really like her, but I think maybe she likes the attention she's starting to get.

    It hurts me because her and I have talked a lot, and she's told me everything it feels like. I feel I know her well and that we would be good together, but then she tells me about other guys she talking to. When I lose her, I'll have no one again. She came to my place Saturday and we made dinner together (her recipe), drank wine, and had really good sex. She slept on me naked in my bed for many hours but I couldn't sleep because I'm used to being up till 7am doing fuckall on the internet. She left at 4am and I followed her to a cab outside. The next morning she texted me and said I was getting really good. That meant a lot because the first night we had sex I was coming off a 2year+ dry streak and I was nervous as fuck and didn't know what the fuck I was doing.

    I like her but I don't think she likes me like that I mean, when we meet up and talk it does, and she'll say things like I'm really mature for my age and whatever, but then she'll tell me about the other guys again.

    I've only had one girlfriend in my life, and she was a shallow bitch. I don't know where to go from here, but I feel sad.
     
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    KOC I just hit alert on your fucking orange balding piece of shit ass so go fuck yourself roast beef faggot
     
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    it's takes too long to explain....sorry brah....football's on
     
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    :lol:
     
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    oh fuck the roast beef card has been played

    you're fucked now, KOC
     
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    KOC I just hit alert on your fucking orange balding piece of shit ass so go fuck yourself roast beef faggot
     
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    veal parmesan pissant
     
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    I'm happy for you bro. I've never known what it's like to have a loving girlfriend.