I can't stand handshakes.

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  1. Scott

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    I hate meeting people and having to shake their hand. I'm not a germaphobe. It's just that no matter what I never seem to know how hard to squeeze. Either I go easy and the other person squeezes so hard I want to yell out in pain, or the other way around, I squeeze so hard I feel like I'm hurting them.

    And then there's the awkward moment when a guy introduces you to his wife and you don't know whether to hug, wave or shake her hand and so you shake her hand but you sort of just hold it there for a second like a flaming douche.

    We need to find a new way to greet people.
     
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    One guy squeezed my hand so hard I swear I broke a bone and it hurt for days.
     
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    I don't mind handjobs
     
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    lol
     
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    Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
     
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    I grab an elbow when I shake hands with someone.
     
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    I try to go on the offensive and squeeze their hand hard and one time this guy's hand just squished inside mine like jelly. I can tell I hurt him but he didn't want to show it. I felt terrible.
     
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    Get it?:cwl:
     
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    Or do the 2 hand hand shake to show I'm super friendly.
     
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    Saran Wrap Hill:jj:
     
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    Do you have women's hands?
     
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    I am a bit of a germphobe which is why I hate them, also it's fucking disgusting when someone has moist hands and leaves a residue of their sweat on your hand.
     
  13. Bro

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    wrong thread
     
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    Milkshakes > Handshakes
     
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    Not really. I work a desk job so I don't have really manly hands but I do have callouses from lifting weights and riding a bike.
     
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    I have a special bro handshake I use with my kids. True story.
     
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    Look em in the eye with a firm grip and say "I'm goddamn Scott. Nice to meet you" and quit being a fag.
     
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    Nothing more awkward than a failed handshake... I go medium pressure standard.

    Assertive enough but nothing to raise an eyebrow like "why did that douche squeeze my hand so hard, what's wrong with that asshole" type response
     
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