I have a fucking question

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  1. Mark Mayonnaise

    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP

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    I'm hanging out with an old friend tomorrow and she just lost one of her best friends in a car accident

    The service is tomorrow and then later in the evening we're going over to her place for a couple beers

    How do you console people? I'm not good at this shit. Should I bring it up or completely avoid the subject as much as possible

    What's a nigga to do

    Thank you

    Here's a pizza sandwich


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  2. basketcase

    basketcase Pissed that Naz only has 2 legs

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    Just listen. If she brings it up just listen. That's all you can do.
     
  3. Avery

    Avery Well-Known Member Banned User

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    and if she brings it up yell...PWNED!!!!!
     
  4. Mark Mayonnaise

    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP

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    That seems awkward but I'd prefer that

    I don't wanna be all like SO HEY ABOUT THAT DEAD GUY LOL
     
  5. Thelonious Davis

    Thelonious Davis Magical negro.

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  6. Mark Mayonnaise

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    :jj:

    :nono:
     
  7. Stevie

    Stevie Now go...Ohm.

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    Then do a little in place dance waving your arms in front of you...
     
  8. Mark Mayonnaise

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    God damn it now when she brings it up this is what I'll think about and I'll fucking laugh :facepalm:
     
  9. Thelonious Davis

    Thelonious Davis Magical negro.

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  10. Oderus

    Oderus Going to hell VIP

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    find out how tall the corpse is
     
  11. Mur

    Mur soon Gold

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    I would just change the subject if its brought up.
     
  12. Mark Mayonnaise

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    :hhh:
     
  13. Chriza

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    Bring over forty identical photos of cheeseburgers and start placing them all around her apartment.
     
  14. DrSublux

    DrSublux Who am dis VIP

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    Just give her hug minus the boner and be there for her
     
  15. Mark Mayonnaise

    Mark Mayonnaise You look like a tree! VIP

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    Good idea

    "MY FRIEND DIED :tears:"

    "HEY WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE PIZZA"
     
  16. Psycho2

    Psycho2 Patron Saint of the Banned

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    This. The most important thing is just to be there and care. It's something that's hard to explain unless you have been through it but people caring and acknowledging the loss means everything when you are the person grieving.
     
  17. Mark Mayonnaise

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    K

    This may be rough, she doesn't handle adversity well
     
  18. basketcase

    basketcase Pissed that Naz only has 2 legs

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    My friends mom died recently. Its hard on her but being there at the right time and the right moment when she wants to talk about it brings her relief I hope.
     
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    The mom?!? :eek:
     
  20. Mark Mayonnaise

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    Pwned!!!