'I have genital herpes!': Woman, 22, tells everybody she has the virus

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  1. MutteringJohn

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    A recent college graduate diagnosed with genital herpes is stepping into the limelight in attempt to destigmatize STIs.

    Ella Dawson, a recent graduate of Wesleyan University who resides in New York City, was diagnosed with herpes two years ago and says she's been dropping the 'herpes bomb' about six months after she had her first outbreak.

    In her essay for Women's Health Mag, Dawson recalls meeting a boy at a party who offered her a sip of his beer.

    'Don’t worry,' she remembers him saying. 'I don’t have herpes or anything.'

    His words hit a sore spot for her and she felt compelled to share her sexual health status.

    '"That’s funny,’ I said, with as warm a smile as I could manage. ‘Yeah, that’s really funny. Because I have genital herpes.’ His face crumbled. Not because I grossed him out — I could practically see the wheels turning in his brain as he realized he’d made an ignorant joke at someone else’s expense. The guy started apologizing profusely,"' she wrote in her essay.

    Dawson said that even though herpes is often the bud of the joke in popular culture, it's a real issue affecting at least one in six Americans.

    Dawson said that she felt empowered after telling someone she had herpes because it humanized the STI in a way that made it less of a stigma.

    'I had seen in the flesh what a simple "I have herpes" could do when said fearlessly, without shame,' she wrote.

    'Because when a real person — a woman you know and respect — casually mentions having herpes, it stops being a punchline and starts being someone's reality.'


    According to the CDC about 17 per cent of people ages 14-19 have genital herpes caused by HSV2.

    That percentage is only of people who choose to get tested and the actual number of people who have the virus is likely much higher.

    Even having sex with a condom does not protect someone from the highly contagious virus that only needs skin to skin contact to spread, even if there are no sores present.

    The Washington Post reports that according to an advocacy group called Project Accept Herpes didn't become a stigma until after the 1970s.

    '[Herpes] was merely a cold sore in an unusual place until the 1970s,' the group says on their web site.

    Dr. Peter Anthony Leone, medical director of the North Carolina HIV/STD Prevention and Control Branch told The Washington Post that the stigmatization of the virus was fueled by conservatives after the 'free love era.'

    'Herpes was seen as this marker of being promiscuous or bad or evil,' he said.

    'But unless you’re in a mutually monogamous relationship with someone who has never had sex, you’re at risk.'

    Leone said that the sex scare campaign was both emotionally traumatizing and also gave false information about the virus.

    A study in the Journal of Health Psychology conducted in 2011 found several survey respondents with STIs reported feelings like 'less of a person.'

    Leone said that safe sex is very important but that herpes is not merely a sexual condition but it primarily a skin condition.

    'The way you remove stigma is by bringing something to light,' he said.

    'We need a push coming at the federal level to talk about sex in terms of health and move away from the disease model. Sex should be seen as part of being an adult, a healthy thing you can do and just part of your routine healthcare.'

    Dawson told the Washington Post that she will continue to blog about the virus and her dealings with it.

    She said that ever since her article on herpes was published she has received several emails from people around the world sharing their own story.


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  2. smichal

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    TMI :shvoogie:
     
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    It looks like she also has a touch of the old "retard eyes" syndrome.
     
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    no, there's a good chance you did gross him out
     
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    Would cum on her face but insist she not touch me
     
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    1. Saying "I don't have Herpes or anything" is not "ignorant". You can make that as a true statement or a joke and still know what genital herpes is.

    2. It's not "bud of the joke", you "professional writer" at women's health mag.

    3. She's not telling everyone she has genital herpes out of pride, wanting to educate, etc, etc. She's doing it so she doesn't have to start dating someone then tell them and get dumped. Which has probably happened to her so many times she's sick of it. The pool of herpes ridden men is her dating pool now.

    4. Maybe if you only fucked people who you first knew well enough to be pretty fucking sure they didn't have herpes you wouldn't have it. That's the price you pay to party.
     
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    Beggars can't be choosers

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    Typical Obama voter right there. I guess to her it's empowering. I'm sure her parents are thrilled.
     
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    SouthernListen I don't follow the crowd. Sorry about that. VIP

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    I love how a disease, Herpes, is now not supposed to be treated as a disease issue, but a "health issue" that is "part of being an adult".

    Meanwhile, she'd likely also argue that alcoholism, drug addiction, and gambling problems, which aren't diseases, should be treated as such.
     
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    And a weaponized vag.
     
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    Condoms don't protect against Genital Herpes. Howard might never fuck Beth again.
     
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    Gross
     
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    Can you get the herps from banging her in her ass?, or is that still to close?.
     
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    If he ever did.
     
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    Benji is interested
     
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    @GaryPuppet : yes or no?
     
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    This is a good question, but I'm fairly confident that ass herpes is called Ostroskes. :grad:




    great screen name btw.
     
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