Do they hold a fork in a civilized manner with forefinger and thumb, fork resting on middle finger? Or do they hold it like a spatula. Spatula holders are poor and unrefined. Do they scoop peas onto their fork using a knife? Or do they push peas with their thumb. Thumb pushers are slovenly cunts. Do they fill their wine glass past 1/3 full? Loser miscreants.