I think I hate my husbands guts.

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  1. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    I saw this on the internet and it made me :(


    miserablewife April 2012Posts: 18Member


    Im pretty sure i've had it w/ my husband. The past few months, the mere sight of him makes me want to throw wine bottles at his face!

    I've just had all I can take of his bs, and no matter what I say or day- nothing ever changes.


    Here's the list:


    - Changes 2 1/2 year old daughters diaper and leaves them all over the floor. Who does he think picks them up?


    - Gets her ready for bed at night, or gets her dressed in the morning and tosses her clothes on the floor.


    -Doesn't put his laundry away...and has pretty much stopped washing ANY laundry at all. If I wash it and fold it, it sits in a basket in the laundry room, which he then roots through, and throws all the clean clothes all over the floor. To that end, I refuse to wash so much as a single stitch of his clothing anymore.


    - In the 18 years we have been together, I have never once seen him use the vacuum or a mop.


    - I have to ask repeatedly for the simplest things to be done. And after asking repeatedly, when I blow up at him, he then turns around and calls me a psycho.


    - I am a stay at home miserable mom who barely leaves the house because it's such a disorganized mess that I spend all my time cleaning, and re-cleaning after both him and the baby.


    - I am also 6 months pregnant...and dreading adding another child into this chaos that I have to deal with myself.


    - If he goes out grocery shopping, he only buys things he likes. To hell with the rest of us.


    - I'll scrub and disinfect the bathrooms, and he'll go in right behind me, toss socks or clothes on the floor, leave globs of toothpaste in the sink and won't rinse the toothpaste he spit out down the sink.




    That's not even half the list. I'm just so upset. I have tried EVERYTHING to get through to him. I've been nice, I've talked to him about how it makes me feel calmly and rationally, i've blown up and had knock-down drag out fights..nothing works and it's gotten to the point where all I do is dream about leaving. But I can't, because I don't have a nickel to my name or anywhere to go. I'm F*cked! Help!!

    http://www.scarymommy.com/message-b...sion/9310/i-think-i-hate-my-husbands-guts-/p1
     
  2. Engaged Chicken

    Engaged Chicken VIP Extreme Gold

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    I'll bet she is fat as a pig. :hippie:
     
  3. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    She says she's a stay at home mom, her "job" is to maintain the house, seems like it's reasonable to have her to the laundry, vacuum, etc.
     
  4. Satori Brah

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    I bet the house smells like a cofffin
     
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    Stop having kids, you stupid cunt.
     
  6. Chiva

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    I throw my socks on the floor.
     
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    * Doesn't put his laundry away. (Puts it on the couch)

     
  8. Chiva

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    You should quote EC when responding to her.
     
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    I don't even wear clothes anymore. Saves on laundry and keeps everyone but the police away.
     
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    This

    She hates him but decides to have another child with him. :crazy:

    Was this written by Christine Governale? :c
     
  11. DrSublux

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    Oh shit the honeymoon is over. :sad:





    I hear throwing wine bottles at his face is a good therapy
     
  12. Nibbler

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    :bounce:

    Great reference. :thumbup2:
     
  13. A Succulent Chinese Meal

    A Succulent Chinese Meal Oh, that's a nice headlock, sir. VIP

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    This sounds like my parents' relationship shortly before my dad started having hot illicit sex with a fat pleasant Mexican woman.
     
  14. Vyb

    Vyb serial chiller Gold

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    That was from April so she has already shit out the kid the was prego with.

    TWO kids...she's REALLY going to go nuts with him working all day and then not coming home and taking care of everything the way she wants it. :rolleyes:
     
  15. Chiva

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    We are both slobs so it works out :dancin:
     
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    Why are you reading cyber mom forums, lucky?
     
  17. A Succulent Chinese Meal

    A Succulent Chinese Meal Oh, that's a nice headlock, sir. VIP

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    "He leaves toothpaste in the sink!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" :bigcry:
     
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    She pisses and moans about what an asshole he is, but then spreads for him, as he plants another seed.

    I picture a Moo-Moo, and still in her slippers when she goes to Wal Mart.
     
  19. Vyb

    Vyb serial chiller Gold

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    She references wine bottles. $100 says the baby has fetal alcohol syndrome.




    I can appreciate the desire to smash one's spouse's face, however.
     
  20. nserafini

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    That's one lucky fella