She met him online. He had one picture posted of himself that she said didn't even look that much like him. He told her he cannot take more pictures because it is against his beliefs "as a Rastafarian." He told her he is studying to be an attorney. He did not register this semester because he had to go home for a few weeks to his homeland of Jamaica. He has to keep going back and forth for weeks at a time, he told her, because of "family situations and citizenship issues" that she just "wouldn't understand." He did not ask her for money, although he seems to always be broke. I asked her how she knew that he really was out of the country and not just avoiding her and she said because she had to mail him a sweatshirt he left in her car (!) Even if he is there, I suspect he has another life/family going on. Not much of this really adds up.