Oh shut up. Everybody needs a place to vent. Some pay psychiatrists hundreds of dollars an hour....others pay board memberships, with like-minded folk. Whatever is bugging you, or bothers you.....or you worry about bothering you - vent and bitch about it here. I have one. (surprise!) My boyfriend with my dog. He is fucking my dog up. My dog is awesome, and incredibly well-trained....because I've spent serious amount of the last 3 years training her. She knows not to jump up....but he'll walk in the door and tap his chest for her to jump on him. He won't use the same commands I've trained her with for 3 years.....so she keeps trying to figure out what he's blithering about. He won't use the hand signals I've taught her.....he'll just flap his hand around at his own discretion, while once again expecting my dog to figure it out............with a treat in his hand, so she tries hard. I did not train her with treats. I trained her with affirmation and affection. Guy is fucking up my dog. Next?