Anyone have any luck with them? Which ones in particular? I think I'm an OK looking guy, mid 30's, got a decent job, not fat or bald, college educated. I tried OkCupid, someone told me before I signed up that it was easy to get dates on there. I couldn't get any responses from girls that I messaged. I sent pretty benign messages too, straight forward, tried to be somewhat witty, no references to causal sex or dick pix. I switched to Plenty of Fish recently, and if the object of the game was attracting fat, black, ugly women, I would be Champion of the Universe! Any of you guys have any success stories? Any female shedders want to give me an honest critque? I'm located in the NYC area so that, as with everything else, may make things much more difficult.