Is having lunch with an ex considered "cheating" ? (srs) (pole)

Discussion in 'The Bar' started by Satori Brah, Dec 29, 2013.

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:coffee:

Poll closed Jan 28, 2014.
  1. sure why not :dontknow: innocent enough

    10.7%
  2. don't do it brah :nono: could only lead to trouble

    50.0%
  3. Meet her AND try to fuck her :hump: she's leaving in a few days

    21.4%
  4. i dunno lol

    17.9%
  1. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    I got an email from this girl I was seeing last summer. She's home for the holidays and wants to meet up for lunch
    or a cup of coffee. I know if someone I know sees us, they will get the wrong idea but seems innocent to me :dontknow:
    She knows I have a srs GF.

    what say you guys? :munch:
     
  2. Tuesday

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    It's not cheating but it's in bad form and not nice.
     
  3. crazypreacher

    crazypreacher Not followin whitey's rules

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    Yes, cuz yer angling for poon. There is no other reason to give an ex a second thought.
     
  4. Mr. Potato Head

    Mr. Potato Head ~POTY the bar~ 2010 OG Gold

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    Honestly, if it's something that I have to ask about, it's probably not worth the hassle. That's just me. :dontknow:
     
  5. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    but I'm a nice guy :dontknow:

    she has some family issues. Kinda feel bad for her
     
  6. stripes

    stripes Active Member Banned User

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    gotta keep your options open & your contacts fresh:coffee:dumbass
     
  7. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    I'm just seeing what other people would do. has no effect on what I'm going to do. thanks :hat:
     
  8. Stevie

    Stevie Well-Known Member VIP

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    Would you want yer gf going out with her ex?
     
  9. Tuesday

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    A nice guy would suggest she get some friends to talk to or professional help for her "issues" and then ask that she fuck off.
     
  10. Stevie

    Stevie Well-Known Member VIP

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    Voted btw.
     
  11. SIPAWITZ

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    Ask your GF what she thinks about it....then when she dumps you for even thinking this is a good idea...you'll be free for coffee with the ex
     
  12. Benham

    Benham Still Better Than You

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    If you feel you can tell your GF about it and she's cool, then fine.
    If you think you have to hide it for whatever reason, then not fine.
     
  13. MrWarmth

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    Is having lunch with an ex considered cheating?

    Groucho Marx: "I sointenly hope so!"
     
  14. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    Meeting him for a cup of coffee? Wouldn't bother me unless it was a regular thing and he was hassling her for sex.
     
  15. cheezedbyfate

    cheezedbyfate Well-Known Member

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    when you see her youre gonna wanna fuck her.
     
  17. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    damn :jj:

    :hat:

    agreed.

    If I go, I will tell her.

    :jj:
     
  18. crazypreacher

    crazypreacher Not followin whitey's rules

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    Oh, lemme switch over and vowt.
     
  19. NipplesAndToes23

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    Whether it's cheating or not depends on if you tell your girlfriend about it. A more important question is if you're happy with your new chick why would you want to meet up with the ex?
     
  20. skp2978

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    So are you telling your girlfriend or not?