Is having lunch with an ex considered "cheating" ? (srs) (pole)

Discussion in 'The Bar' started by Satori Brah, Dec 29, 2013.

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:coffee:

Poll closed Jan 28, 2014.
  1. sure why not :dontknow: innocent enough

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  2. don't do it brah :nono: could only lead to trouble

    50.0%
  3. Meet her AND try to fuck her :hump: she's leaving in a few days

    21.4%
  4. i dunno lol

    17.9%
  1. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    I got an email from this girl I was seeing last summer. She's home for the holidays and wants to meet up for lunch
    or a cup of coffee. I know if someone I know sees us, they will get the wrong idea but seems innocent to me :dontknow:
    She knows I have a srs GF.

    what say you guys? :munch:
     
  2. Tuesday

    Tuesday VIP Extreme Gold

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    It's not cheating but it's in bad form and not nice.
     
  3. crazypreacher

    crazypreacher Not followin whitey's rules Gold

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    Yes, cuz yer angling for poon. There is no other reason to give an ex a second thought.
     
  4. Mr. Potato Head

    Mr. Potato Head ~Would Like to Play~ Gold

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    Honestly, if it's something that I have to ask about, it's probably not worth the hassle. That's just me. :dontknow:
     
  5. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    but I'm a nice guy :dontknow:

    she has some family issues. Kinda feel bad for her
     
  6. stripes

    stripes Active Member Banned User

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    gotta keep your options open & your contacts fresh:coffee:dumbass
     
  7. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    I'm just seeing what other people would do. has no effect on what I'm going to do. thanks :hat:
     
  8. Stevie

    Stevie Now go...Ohm.

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    Would you want yer gf going out with her ex?
     
  9. Tuesday

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    A nice guy would suggest she get some friends to talk to or professional help for her "issues" and then ask that she fuck off.
     
  10. Stevie

    Stevie Now go...Ohm.

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    Voted btw.
     
  11. SIPAWITZ

    SIPAWITZ Bialy Whore Banned User

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    Ask your GF what she thinks about it....then when she dumps you for even thinking this is a good idea...you'll be free for coffee with the ex
     
  12. Benham

    Benham Still Better Than You

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    If you feel you can tell your GF about it and she's cool, then fine.
    If you think you have to hide it for whatever reason, then not fine.
     
  13. MrWarmth

    MrWarmth UP YOURS Gold

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    Is having lunch with an ex considered cheating?

    Groucho Marx: "I sointenly hope so!"
     
  14. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    Meeting him for a cup of coffee? Wouldn't bother me unless it was a regular thing and he was hassling her for sex.
     
  15. cheezedbyfate

    cheezedbyfate Well-Known Member

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    when you see her youre gonna wanna fuck her.
     
  17. Satori Brah

    Satori Brah Well-Known Member

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    damn :jj:

    :hat:

    agreed.

    If I go, I will tell her.

    :jj:
     
  18. crazypreacher

    crazypreacher Not followin whitey's rules Gold

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    Oh, lemme switch over and vowt.
     
  19. Danas Boyfrien

    Danas Boyfrien Mediocre Negro

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    Whether it's cheating or not depends on if you tell your girlfriend about it. A more important question is if you're happy with your new chick why would you want to meet up with the ex?
     
  20. skp2978

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    So are you telling your girlfriend or not?