WTF Is it REALLY Illegal to Spank Your Kids?

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  1. stanggirl

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    Today..a guy at work was venting about his night the day before. His 11 year old kid called him an asshole@!!

    I was like..omg!!..my Dad would've gave me the beating of my life! I was afraid to even THINK of a curse word when I was a kid.

    I asked him if he gave the kid a swat..he said..you're not allowed!!!.He just had a " talk "with the little shit.

    And also..college averages abut 60 grand a year for a kid???

    Wtf????....Almost glad I never spawned a little shit...though I have no qualms about delivering a spanking when deserved..and hence, my kids would never be assholes..lol
     
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    Do not have kids.
     
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    Why would you have any interest in talking to co-workers about their lives outside of work?
     
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    my brother in law spanks and his kids are the biggest dipshits on the planet. not sure the correlation is there personally.
     
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    I was hit endlessly

    I have never once hit my kids
    not even a spanking

    if you feel you want to spank yours then go ahead
    there's a line that you can't cross but not sure a spank on the ass is it


    but there's a reason parents stop hitting their kids
    it's usually at the age where they figure out the kid has 40 pounds and 3 inches on them

    you never see someone spanking their 6'2" 240 pound 17 year old


    but if you wanna spank go nuts
    though maybe it's lazy and suggests you are easily outsmarted by a child so you resort to the base part of our nature




















    and you people thought I had no real opinions on shit
     
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    My old man spanked me twice. His method (which scared the shit out of me) was he would raise his voice from zero to 60 in record time. "If you EVER say anything like that again you'll get a beating you'll never forget." His face would become all distorted and as a kid i felt like he was instantly possessed by Satan and I better shape up.
     
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    Spanking and child abuse are 2 different things

    Clearly..if your kid calls you an asshole to your face..the time out discipline method you've been using doesn't work

    Parents who let their kids call them assholes without reprimanding them are cuckolds
     
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    I never said it was abuse--I said it was lazy
    if you can only think of sit in a corner or spank as punishment then maybe you're not bright enough to have children

    it's possibly this lack of brightness that makes some people raise children who feel such words are acceptable
     
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    I think I got 2 spankings my whole childhood. My Pops was fair about it, too..if I told him the truth..no over the knee

    Anyways..those 2 spankings were my reference point when I acted up. He'd just mention getting a spanking and I'd straighten up and that was it.

    I also would NEVER curse in front of my parents or at them. The fact that this guy at work and a couple of others didn't think much of it really blew my mind. His kid has no respect for him
     
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    Sorry, but no one wants parenting advice from someone without kids. Spanking is pointless and can easily become abuse.
     
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    My dad used to grab us by the hair and kick us in the ass:haha:
     
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    What other means of discipline is there..that actually works?
     
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    Yeah..you got me confused with someone else. I'm the chick with the deadbeat husband
     
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    I was never hit and became the only one of my family to graduate college, own a home, get married, and have a kid.

    My brothers were hit for everything wrong they did. One attempted suicide and is an overall fuck-up (although he is doing better lately) and the other has been arrested numerous times and was a big time drug dealer for a time before getting beat half to death by a rival (also doing a bit better now, but still sucks).
     
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    But time outs and having your kid calls you an asshole to your face is a parenting win?

    Beat those little shits!
     
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    I've spanked my kids a few times. Cupped hand on the butt. All noise and drama, no pain.

    More routinely, give them a consequence for their actions. It has to be immediate and you have to do it every time. They learn pretty quickly.
     
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    I don't think it's surprising that when they get pissed they respond by bunching eachother.
     
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    At 11, you are at that age where spanking is not going to have any impact. Unless you are trying to inflict pain. To me, you take things/privileges away or limit their fun for awhile.

    What the hell do i know. My kid is 6 now. I like to hope I won't raise an asshole of a kid.
     
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    kids say not nice things sometimes. it's part of growing up. flying off the handle probably isn't going to teach them that they were in the wrong. if anything it teaches them that's the appropriate response when THEY are upset.
     
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