Is it wrong of me to not want my best friend hanging out with my ex?

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  1. garypagetwo

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    My ex broke up with her boyfriend of almost a year just last week, and I think she's suddenly really into me again. She sends me random texts, and last Saturday we were at a party together and she was sorta coming onto me pretty hard. The thing is, I don't hate her, but she is a bitch, and I don't want to get together with her again. I really don't want to send off signals implying I've really missed her or can't wait to get in her pants, because that would totally back fire. She was coming on hard enough last Saturday that I probably could have fucked her if I wanted to...

    Ok anyways, this morning she sends me a random text asking me what my plans for the day are. I tell her I'm going out (which means drinking) in the evening, and ask her what she's up to. She replies with funny texts and I have to reply a few more times before I find out she doesn't have plans yet. Probably the natural thing to do would be to invite her out, but I'm going to someone's house party, where there'll be lots of girls, not town, so I can't really bring her with me.

    Ok anyways, my best friend is going to be driving me there later, and all of a sudden I get a text for her asking if I want to come out and hang with her, a guy who's a close friend of hers, and my best friend. The fuck? I had only just hours earlier talked about her on the phone with him, and he was telling me to forget her, ignore her etc. Now he's hanging out with her? The other dude is also our friend, but we're not nearly as close as he is to my ex.

    There's no CHANCE I wanna just "hang out" with her and other people, not unless lots of alcohol is involved, and I'm kinda pissed at my friend for not taking a fucking hint. Am I in the wrong here or should my friend understand I really don't want him hanging out with her, even if it's a group of people and she's with them?
     
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    SHUT THE FUCK UP :coffee:
     
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    OMG you are HAAARRIBLE.
     
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    THIS THREAD IS NOW ABOUT KFC


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    not this shit again
     
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    Do they still sell the boneless wings?
     
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    kfc mashed potatos - best ever
     
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    I have no idea :jj: I haven't had KFC in years :(
     
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    Guys, I'm really serious about this. He's picking me up in 2 hours and I'm wondering if I should let him know how I feel about the whole thing.
     
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    What? If my memory serves me correctly, she snubbed you and was hanging all over another dude.

    And you've chosen some suck friends. Friend rule #1... never hang out with or fuck with your friend's ex.
     
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    Toonie Tuesday at KFC today!!


    they really shouldnt call it that, considering it costs $3 now
     
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    Just tell her how you feel. You are not 14 years old anymore. Act like an adult.