is my friend a scumbag?

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  1. Shivvy

    Shivvy VIP Extreme Gold

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    some of you know the backs story. for those that dont, heres a small sample. dude was a junkie. has 2 kids. well, 1 isnt his kid. its his ex wifes drug dealers kid that he takes care of. this kid is black, by the way :jj:.
    he now lives with his mail order bride, their new kid, his son, and the black kid. hes somewhat turned his life around.

    anyways... he also has a daughter that the ex wife kept. he just got notified that shes doing prison time. the guy who was living with her is refusing to take care of her. shes 5. so DSS is saying, "come get this girl or shes going to foster care."
    he just told me that hes gonna tell that that he cant. that he already has 3 kids and there just isnt any more room or $$ for her."

    i walked away shaking my head.
     
  2. ChuckZ

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    a lot of words there
     
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    Shivvy VIP Extreme Gold

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    sorry. i had to vent. ive been hanging with this guy for 3 years. ive seen him do a lot of selfish shit and i look the other way. but this one really got to me.
     
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    Is this the neighbor who beat the shit out of the mail order bride? :facepalm:
     
  5. Butcher

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    I tried to follow that but it was very disjointed. I'll throw caution to the wind and say "yes"
     
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    YOu should take the kid in and put it on phone sales
     
  7. DrSublux

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    If it is his biological kid then he has no choice.
     
  8. Shivvy

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    thats the one. speaking of her. she got a job at a factory doing the night shift. she got her first check the other day. last night we met them for a couple of drinks for her b day. he tells the bartender to put all the drinks on her tab :jj:
     
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    This sounds like the making of a sit com. I'd probably re cast a Chinese kid in the role of the black kid to avoid charges of racism.
     
  10. Mlaw

    Mlaw Quite Contrarian VIP Gold

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    once you go past two kids the economics actually get better---you can buy in bulk and have no waste. But honestly, this guy should send all his kids to foster care
     
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    Sadly, the little girl is probably better off in foster care.

    However, if he says he doesn't have the means to care for anymore children then he should be required to get a vasectomy.
     
  12. PullMyFinger

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    Sounds like the girl might be better off away from both the parents.

    Maybe she can hit the adoption lottery.
     
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    where are the grandparents?
     
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    so is it his kid?
     
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    i said, "why dont you trade in ***** whos not yours and take your daughter." he didnt like that
     
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    Any man who can't pay child support and any woman who gets an abortion or puts her kid up for adoption should be required by law to get fixed IMO.
     
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    Shivvy VIP Extreme Gold

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    well, hes not got his mom and sister living with him. hes doing it so he can get a 2300 sq ft home and hes making the mom pay a majority of the bills. not sure where the ex wifes parents are
     
  18. DrSublux

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    The little girl already doesnt have a shot a good life :sad:
     
  19. MrPPV

    MrPPV The Shed Stopper

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    thats fucked up to take care of someone else's kid, but not your own flesh and blood.
     
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    mrs shiv has hated him since the domestic violence incident. i just told her about this and she went through the roof