Is my sister being shady? Opinions? Insight?

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  1. Oh So Much

    Oh So Much Well-Known Member VIP

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    Back story:

    I am 41 and my half sister is 52. She and I have the same Dad, different Mom's.
    My Dad divorced her Mom when she was around 3 or 4. My Dad married my Mom when she was 5.
    My Mom passed away in 2007, my Dad in 2008.

    My sister just got married for the first time in April this year and is now in the process of changing her last name.

    She informed me she has an appointment with Social Security next week and wanted to know if I had a copy of my Dad's social security number because her copy is illegible. (she sent me this in an e-mail)

    I told her I don't have a copy of his SS card and said in my e-mail "You need Dad's social security number to change your name?"

    She just replied "It's on his death certificate. Do you have a legible copy?" Never telling me WHY she needed it in the first place, my Dad passed 6 years ago, she doesn't need it to change her name obviously.

    What is your opinion on what she would need it for?

    Note: I knew it was on the death certificate and wanted to know why she needed it, hence my comment in the e-mail which she ignored. I will probably tell her I have it but am uncomfortable putting it in an e-mail and to call me and I'll give it to her over the phone at which point I can ask her why she wants it.

    This doesn't sound right to me. What are your thoughts?

    I can get into a whole other story about my childhood home which we both own half of but that's a whole other story I don't think you all want to read. Another nightmare.... (tl;dr)
     
  2. zhukov

    zhukov Time traveler Gold

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    your half-sister is a snake

    don't give it out
     
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  3. Stew Nod

    Stew Nod Hello VIP

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    She's fucking your husband. for sure
     
  4. Stew Nod

    Stew Nod Hello VIP

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    Probably marrying a Nigerian as well
     
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    Hmm - all I can say is, something is definitely not right. Any lawyers you could speak to?
     
  6. Stew Nod

    Stew Nod Hello VIP

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    Make her send you pics of her doing silly poses to prove she's for real


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  7. Popeye Saavedra

    Popeye Saavedra Well-Known Member

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    I am gonna need to see naked pics of you and your sister to determine what is going on here.
     
  8. Stevie

    Stevie Now go...Ohm.

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    Wow. You're old.
     
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    Hahhahahahah
     
  11. freds

    freds you broke it VIP

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    call the SSI people. they've seen every scam known to man and half sister.
     
  12. zhukov

    zhukov Time traveler Gold

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    why is your h-sis talking to SSI at age 52?
     
  13. Stew Nod

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    Probably diabeetus

    Thanks Obama
     
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    Seems shady. And definitely use the excuse of not wanting to put it in an email to get her on the phone
     
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    @Oh So Much I still want the pics but I will answer you seriously. She can just look it up on the Internet I think. Either way she can find it if she wants it. But I agree she doesn't nee dit for the name change. That's bullshit.
     
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    zhukov Time traveler Gold

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    if you talk to her, don't cave in a give her the number before you talk to SSI
     
  17. Oh So Much

    Oh So Much Well-Known Member VIP

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    She's going there to change her last name since she just got married.
     
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    zhukov Time traveler Gold

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    likely story
     
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    Oh So Much Well-Known Member VIP

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    My boyfriend and her do not like each other very much.
     
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    hate fucking is so hot.