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    Porn is ruining sex for teens
    By Lauren Wilson, News.com.au
    February 12, 2016 | 10:43am

    When 18-year-old Jake had his first sexual experience three years ago, he believed all the readily available porn he watched had prepared him for the real thing.
    But instead of the plethora of sexual positions and experiences the teen might have imagined was awaiting, an awkward reality dawned on the adolescent.
    “First time I had sex, because I’d watched so much porn I though all chicks dig this, all chicks want this done to them … all chicks love it there. So I tried all of this stuff, and yeah, it turned out bad.”
    Jake’s story features in a documentary called “Reality and Risk: Love and Sex in and Age of Pornography,” directed by Australian sexuality educator Maree Crabbe and academic Dave Corlett.
    The film features teenagers speaking candidly in their own words about how pornography is distorting and destroying the sexual development of an entire generation of young digital natives.
    It is an issue that is finally beginning to get attention. A major symposium was held in Sydney this week to discuss how profoundly porn is harming today’s teens, and a federal Senate inquiry into the problem is now on foot.
    Crabbe, who was one of the speakers at the symposium, says pornography’s role and influence in the sexual development of children is now something “we can’t afford to ignore or obscure.”
    “Jake is not alone, many young men have spoken to us about aspiring to engage in the sort of sex they have seen in pornography,” she said.
    “And when we interview young women about their experiences of sex they confirm that their partners are initiating the signature sex acts from pornography.”
    “These girls and young women are struggling with wanting to please their partners, wanting to be accommodating and generous in their sexuality, but usually, not wanting to engage in the sort of sex that pornography promotes.”
    What many parents don’t realize is that pornography today is nothing like the Playboy and Hustler magazines of 15 or 20 years ago.
    At the click of a button children have free and anonymous access to hundreds of millions of porn sites online, displaying any and every sexual predilection imaginable.
    There are now more than 430 million porn-related search items online, and on average in Australia kids are 11 when they are first exposed to internet porn.
    The most popular sites stream hundreds of thousands of short, amateurish, hardcore porn clips, filed under dozens of categories like facials, anal, lesbians and gangbangs. It is a style that has come to be known as “gonzo” porn and the clips have no pretense of a plot line.
    The vast majority of modern porn is also aggressive, with studies showing 88 percent of scenes include some form of physical aggression, like gagging, choking and slapping, overwhelmingly directed at women.
    The University of Wollongong’s Michael Flood says there is an increasing body of evidence linking pornography to sexual assault, in effect, suggesting porn might be a form of rape training for adolescents.
    “Pornography is an important risk factor for sexual violence. Young people — and adults — who use pornography are more likely than those who don’t to see violence against women as okay, to agree with rape myths, and so on, and they’re also more likely to behave in sexually aggressive ways.”
    But Flood stresses the risks are not equal, and pornography will prove more influential and problematic for some young men than others.
    “If a 16-year-old guy already has hostile and sexist attitudes toward girls, he is more likely to be drawn to violent pornography, and this pornography will have a greater influence on the likelihood that he will pressure or coerce girls into sex,” he said.
    In a sign that the insidious impacts of pornography are already being felt in society, teenagers and pre-teens are now alarmingly the perpetrators of 25 percent of all sexual assaults.
    While the numbers of young people under 20 committing serious crimes including homicide, theft, and causing injury have all gone down over the last five years, Australian Bureau of Statistics data shows number of youths committing sexual assault offences has soared from 1,497 in 2008-09 to 1,855 in 2013-14.
    Australian Children’s Foundation director Joe Tucci, who deals youths demonstrating troubling sexual behaviors, describes today’s brand of pornography as “jet fuel” for young vulnerable kids.
    “What we are seeing now, is an increase in the numbers of kids engaged in problematic sexual behavior, sexually aggressive or harmful behavior,” Tucci says.
    “I can’t see how what they are doing is not related to what they are seeing it … we are seeing kids today engage in sex acts that 15 years ago they never came close to doing.”
    Women’s advocate Melinda Tankard Reist spends a lot of time talking to teenage girls about sexual exploitation and pornography at school across the country, and she agrees the time to act is now.
    Tankard Reist says one young teenage girl told her the boy she liked would only kiss her if she first agreed to give him oral sex, another 15-year-old girl said her boyfriend was not able to have sex with her unless he put porn on in the background.
    “This has gone on for too long, it’s getting worse, the kids are getting younger, we are seeing a rise in more damaging and more problematic sexual behavior,” she says.
    West Australian Liberal Senator Chris Back agrees that something needs to be done about the growing problem. He and Labor Senator Joe Bullock have now established a parliamentary inquiry to examine the issues, acknowledging that while there is a problem, there is no clear solution to it.
    “We are having a fully bipartisan inquiry, this is a concern which is not confined to partisan politics, and it is giving everyone an opportunity to come forward,” he said.
    “The strength of these inquiries is in direct relationship to the breadth of input we get, if we get a wide spectrum of input we will have a good inquiry and we will get good outcomes.
     
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    Needs a serious beating.
     
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    Poor Misguided youths..... :haha: Reality is a Bitch....:nojj:
     
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    I have a young daughter and this shit sends chills down your spine. Fuck this.
     
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    The only thing I can relate to this is how after years of watching porn before I first became sexually active, is I realized how much you can't see when you're actually in the moment. I remember doing missionary and expecting to be able to see it going in and out in great detail like I saw in the movies. Also realizing a lot of the positions you saw were "varsity" moves that I/we couldn't pull off and be comfortable/enjoyable. The only thing I worry about is the vast amount of kinks kids see, some on the edge of violence towards women, and not being to wrap their head around the fact that this is not what all people are in to and then in turn putting their girlfriends in positions of feeling forced to comply or that girls feel they have to put up with it because "this is what they do in the movies".
    I hate to think of all the shithead teens who watch a porn of anal done violently with no lube, all the while the woman is moaning with pleasure shoving their dick straight in and really hurting their partner. Stuff like that needs to be explained to these young kids that's not how it works.
     
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    I bet the kid in the article tried to anal piledrive his girlfriend while making her suck on his big toe.

    I agree though, porn will warp these kids (boys) expectations. I am kind of jealous though because on the flip side, I'm sure some of the girls who watch now will become super freaks.
     
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    porn ain't doing most adults a lot of good either I reckon

    I mean I need to watch some pretty wild shit now just to get turned on

    2 lesbians going at it
    or a regular couple having sex
    I may as well be watching home movies of my kids and parents baking a cake
     
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    Porn is ruining sex for adults too. Try locking yourself in a basement for years watching porn and masturbating, all the while a perfectly fine and willing partner is shunned.
    You'll end up like this couple or maybe worse.

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    My kid will not have internet.


    ...but I will leave torn up Penthouses in the yard for him/her to find.
     
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    Pre Marital sex is a sin. These children should be partaking in Anal Sex to avoid incurring God's wrath.
     
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    Wait a second, the article is about a bunch of Aussies? Who would expect inbred descendants of a prison colony to know the difference between fantasy and reality? Only lower rent global white trash is in South Africa.
     
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    When did the reality and "that's fucking fake" circle complete itself? I watched (and continue to watch) my fair share of porn when I was growing up. The first time I saw a fucking B/G scene I was first into the fact that I could watch a chick get pile-driven into the mattress. Then, the hideous banter between C list, early 90s porn "talent" took over and the eye rolling began. And never stopped.

    18 year old dudes: it's not real. You know what will fulfill your expectation levels if you're thinking this shit is real? Fucking a porn girl - ON SET. Even those whores don't do half the shit in real life they get paid to do in movies.

    Kids are idiots.

    Now can we all just return to our dark rooms and watch Asa Akira get DP'd by two white guys and blast into a tissue in PRIVATE? Gratzi...
     
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    When I was a kid, I had to jerk off to women in the JC Penny catalog. So my view of sex was that you would have sex with girls who wore sensible and dated clothing at good values. My first time was with a girl who bought her clothes at the Gap and I had no clue what to do. You don't hear me crying how JC Penny screwed up my views of sex.
     
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    Maybe chicks should just watch more porn.
     
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    Biggest myth.....her butthole isn't "second base"....
    :c
     
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    You'd think they'd include a diagram on how to remove those giant bras and panties

    [​IMG]
     
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    You mean girls don't get turned on when you slap the hell out of them after choking them with your erection, then cum in their hair? :doh:


    Who knew? :dontknow:


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    The problem is young men don't know the differences between women and whores.
     
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