Is there any way to settle an estate without hating your sibling(s)?

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  1. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member VIP

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    I'ma go out on a limb and say it's doubtful. :sad:

    His juden is showing.
     
  2. jdwhatever

    jdwhatever Fesh Gold

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    Yeah. Don't be selfish.
     
  3. jdwhatever

    jdwhatever Fesh Gold

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    Ok
     
  4. Swedish John

    Swedish John I'm your huckleberry

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    I have to do this soon. Not looking forward to it AT ALL.
     
  5. doughhead63

    doughhead63 OD'd on life itself Staff Member

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    I hope so...
     
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    ice cream Well-Known Member VIP

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    yes....equal shares
     
  7. Mlaw

    Mlaw Quite Contrarian VIP Gold

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    what's the issue?
     
  8. VeeB

    VeeB I have a Full Member VIP

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    Only child. It's all mine. YAS.
     
  9. Mlaw

    Mlaw Quite Contrarian VIP Gold

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    ...and the answer is sometimes
     
  10. Mlaw

    Mlaw Quite Contrarian VIP Gold

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    ...or tell your parents to spend every last cent or leave it to charity
     
  11. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member VIP

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    :jj: It ain't me, bro.
     
  12. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member VIP

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    He wants all the money before the estate is settled.
     
  13. Stew Nod

    Stew Nod Well-Known Member Banned User

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    I tell my mom to spend it all....She made me and my seester executors....anyway, after watching a part of our family have a disgusting dispute over this shit, I mentioned to each of my siblings that if any of them pull that shit I'll knock em out right at the funeral...LOL dad wanted it 4 equal ways, that's the way it'll go
     
  14. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member VIP

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    He's driving me fucking nuts.

    Apparently he doesn't understand carrying costs.
     
  15. wife is a whore

    wife is a whore King Maker VIP

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    Tell him every time he asks for the money early it will cost him a percentage point. Also tell him if he wasn't a fuck up, then he would be the one in charge of everything.
     
  16. Lemmy

    Lemmy Douchebag Extraordinaire Gold

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    My mom always liked my brother more and she was happy to remind me constantly. If I get anything besides a bill I'll be shocked. :jj:
     
  17. Mack

    Mack Well-Known Member VIP

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    :jj: it's coming to that.
     
  18. Phil McKrakin

    Phil McKrakin AKA Howie VIP

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    show them proof of your warrior blood...that'll shut 'em down right quick
     
  19. wife is a whore

    wife is a whore King Maker VIP

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    If you think it is going to end bad anyway, drop the hammer early. It will save you hearing bullshit and he can get a head start on getting over the butthurt.
     
  20. Mlaw

    Mlaw Quite Contrarian VIP Gold

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    withdraw as executor, ask the court to appoint an independent person, or have your lawyer appointed, it will cost a couple of grand, but then the headache is gone, and when he realized every time he badgers the person it will cost money, it will stop