I've decided to stop talking to one of my friends

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  1. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    It didn't start out this way, but I'm noticing things that get on my nerves more and more. When we all go out, a bit too obnoxious especially with waitresses or young girls he has no chance of hooking up with, loud, annoying, etc.

    I've stopped initiating all communication and when he texts I might not respond or I respond with very brief, non-answer type responses because the alternative isn't better, "I've decided that you're the type of person who I'd rather not associate with" - yeah, that's much better the the cold shoulder approach. Not.

    It's better for all parties involved.
     
  2. Scott

    Scott Masshole Staff Member

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    I did the same thing. Even blocked him on facebook. He's one of these victim types that whined all the time and liked to vent to me. He had nothing positive to add to my life so I cut the cord.
     
  3. HydroJoe

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    cant like everybody
     
  4. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    Has he given you the "Is something wrong? I get the sense you might be angry with me or something" speech yet?
     
  5. Reggae Mistress

    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    You were friend with Stevie on Facebook? :c
     
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    idiotbox Looking for a dime and found a quarter. VIP

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    one of my good friends is the same way but i will never cut him out of life.
     
  7. gilaet

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    Is something wrong? I get the sense you might be angry with me or something
     
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    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    I broke up with a really close friend because she was an emotional vampire and completely negative about everything. The final straw was when she started talking shit about her husband, to other women. Now, I now that we never really know what goes on behind closed doors but the husband is a great guy and I thought if she would throw her own husband under the bus, what must she say about friends?
     
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    Scott Masshole Staff Member

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    We were good friends years ago and we had a fallout then lost touch. 20 years later he contacts me on facebook and wants to hang out all the time and act like we're 20 again. Do all the things we used to do. I'm over all that and am far too busy but still liked the guy and tried to be friendly. One day he writes me a message saying that I am an asshole because I don't want to hang out with him and only talk to him on facebook bla bla bla. I told him I only see many of my best friends in person at cookouts and parties a couple times a year because we're all busy and spread out. It's nothing personal but he didn't get it and got all offended so I deleted his ass. Fuck em.
     
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    Is he cute?
     
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    GHP New Member Banned User

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    I hate those types of girls. If she's saying her husband is so fucked up, what does that make her - she's married to the guy :facepalm:
     
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  13. BrulesRules

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    too bad GP2 isn't here..he has lots of problems with his friends.
     
  14. Reggae Mistress

    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    He works his balls off to give her the life of luxury and comfort. She doesn't work, doesn't clean her own home, shops on Mondays and Wednesdays, tennis on Tuesday's, massage, mani/pedi on Thursdays and a wash and blow out on Fridays. Her husband loves her like no other man I have seen and is so cool. Yet she never has enough...drives me insane.
     
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    GHP New Member Banned User

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    I have a bro-in-law and his wife just like that. It's gotten to the point where I don't like him because he's such a wimp about everything
     
  16. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    I appreciate your honesty.

    You are in love with the husband, want him sexually and emotionally, you think about him and the life you two could be having.
     
  17. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    When I was college age, I knew a girl who was talking about how small this guy's penis is. "My last boyfriend was so big and this guy is so small..." etc. Anyway, she goes on to date Mr. Baby Dick and the two of them eventually went on to get married. Of course, now we all know their little secret.

    I feel bad for the guy.
     
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    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    I wouldn't go THAT far :rofl:
     
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    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    Because he married a bitch or because he has a baby dick?
     
  20. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    Mainly because we all know his situation. The wife is pretty hot, I think about performing oral sex on her (when she's in all fours position) quite often when we're together.