Ok ladies - can you please explain this phenomena of Fifty Shades of Grey? I dint read the book but I Did watch the movie with my wife. WTF makes you ladies so hot for this movie? I get the whole sensual S&M thing. But this guy Christian Grey is a Sadistic prick, who wants to beat his ladies into pain. By the end of the movie I wanted to kick the shit out of his character because of the horrible way he treated women. As i said, I obviously don't understand women. Several women I know got all horned up by this movie ( yes my wife too - from which I benefitted). One friend of ours said she had to sit on a news paper during the movie because it got her so wet. Please help us men understand. Where's the line between misogyny and sensuality? Women are fascinating creatures.