Lady Shedders, If a Guy hates his mother is that a deal breaker

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  1. Bianca's Dead Carcass

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    Being single, I always read that before a woman should settle for a guy, see how he treats his mother because that's how he will eventually treat you…Is this a deal breaker? The reason I ask is that I can't stand my mother...
     
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  2. Mr. Potato Head

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    You should hate fuck her.
     
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    I don't like your mother either. its ok
     
  4. Shortwave98

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    Sooner or later people around here are gonna figure out that this isn't the place for advice.:facepalm:
     
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    To be honest, I'm not fond of your mother either.
     
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    It's a case by case basis.
    There are plenty of mothers out there that are cunts and unworthy of respect.

    However, if you're just being an asshole to your decent kind mother for the sport of it yes...that's a deal breaker.

    Ha, I disagree!:D

    If you can weed out the smartass and the nonsense often this place has some good advice to give.
    It's actually quite an intelligent bunch. :cool:
     
  7. HypocriteHowie

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    God I hope not.
     
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    Are you a blind cat and is your "mother" a "model" ?
     
  9. monsoon

    monsoon Who are you with?

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    Not being a stoner is the deal breaker. And I would never be with someone who doesn't drink. Daily.
    Those are the deal breakers.


    F mutt
     
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    My mother threw me out of the family for marrying the "wrong girl". The "wrong girl" seems to think I treat her very well, and we're very happy 11 years and two kids later, so what does that tell you?
     
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    Same thing happened to me in a way.

    Mil didn't think I was good enough because my last name was Smith, not VanderSmith. 15 years and 3 grandchildren later I'm not considered family anymore because we bought out the family business.

    Her loss.
     
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    What if his mom is a pain in the ass?
     
  13. MyLazyHand

    MyLazyHand Russia and France Know What to Do

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    You sound like a peasant. Did you wear shoes to the wedding?
     
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    I had to be convinced.
     
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    I think worse (just barely) than hating your mother is being completely attached and enmeshed. That's a fucking nightmare, too.
     
  16. Bianca's Dead Carcass

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    I don't believe my post is calling for advice as I am not seeking advice on what to do…I'm more curious as to how the female mind thinks as thats the reason for this thread..
     
  17. lilbuddy67

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    My Mom is dead. I treat her very well.
     
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    My husband WORSHIPED his mother (but NOT in a Mama's Boy kind of way :nono: ), as did I. She was my second mother from the time I was 17 years old.

    However, that being said, he did/does not treat me that same way. I'll NEVER be on the same pedestal she was on in his eyes. I'm not saying that's good or bad, just fact.

    Now, as a person who can only take my own mother in small doses, I don't think I would ever hold it against someone if they felt the same way about their own mother. :dontknow:
     
  19. Bianca's Dead Carcass

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    Thanks for the honest answer….So I still got a chance at love…LOL...

    :thumbup2:
     
  20. Bianca's Dead Carcass

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    apparently you know my mom….
     
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