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  1. headerheader

    headerheader VIP Extreme Gold

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    Anyone here deal with anxiety?

    When I go through breakups of serious relationships, I typically get generalized anxiety for a couple months after. Like, I'd go see a dr but I know from experience that it wont last forever so I dont see the point of trying to get onto medication or something.

    Although counseling prob couldnt hurt lol

    I'll probably be fucked with for this thread but wondering what you guys deal if you get anxiety? I figure I cant just be drunk all the time sooooo
     
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    P-B Honourary Canuck Gold

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    Please put Schmoopy on ignore before he sees this. It's for your own good.
     
  3. Shivvy

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    every day. i take 1 to 2 mg of kolonopin a day
     
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    harlock ancora imparo Gold

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    if it's a real anxiety problem, drinking usually makes it worse.
     
  5. Kanye West

    Kanye West Yeezus!

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    yes but it gets better over time
     
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    Kanye West Yeezus!

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    after my breakup in 2013 i still see a therapist once every two weeks
     
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    This. I'll get anxiety for days after a good drinking session.
     
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    panic attacks are severe but it depends on what triggers it. for a while it was foods. now its fucking bugs :facepalm:
     
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    Schmoop is nice to me?
     
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    I used to. It was terrible. It affected me in work and personally. There was no real rhyme or reason to when it would hit, that I could easily see anyway. I was in therapy for some time and it absolutely helped. It's a thing of the past now. :etm:

    Good luck with it. If you can try therapy with insurance I highly recommend it.
     
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    What is it?
     
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    x76 Just a crazy old hermit VIP

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    Just get through it. It can suck hard. Just bullshit your way through it. Counseling, though somewhat of a drag, can be useful in relationships... generally by the time you think about talking to a counselor, you're already on the fucking rocks, though.

    My favorite technique is to grit my teeth and mutter to myself "I am not depressed. I am not depressed. I can take this and a lot more." Also, alcohol. And music.



    And reefer. Did I mention reefer?
     
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    I'm actually happily married now. :facepalm:




    I'm sure that will change tho. :suicide:
     
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    I'm with you. My anxiety is through the roof after a breakup. I usually lose a bunch of weight and look like a Chicken Head.
    It helps to talk to girlfriends about it until they want to murder you... and lavender oil helps too. :thumbup:
     
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    Kanye West Yeezus!

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    do you use your pens for assplay?
     
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    Is it really any surprise that a large number of us that interact on the computer suffer from anxiety? :jj:
     
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    i flipped my shit mowing the lawn yesterday because there were wasps flying around. :facepalm:
     
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    Check your PMs.
     
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    No! That's what pencils are for. The eraser is softer. :hat:
     
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