LONG time lurker. This site is so much funnier than the show the wigged one puts on. If this place is anything it is brutally honest. This is Howard related because I am not a cuckhold like he is. Anyway, here it goes. My wife volunteers on some Saturdays for a local charity. During dinner last night I asked her about her day. All normal responses besides when she said she got a great back rub from Andre who works there as well. At first I didn't think much about it, but as time went by I started getting irritated. I am not the jealous type but told her later I was upset about this back rub. I informed her" if a man not in her family is touching her he is trying to fuck her". I also pointed out if I came home and said "Suzie from the office gave me a great massage today" she would be pissed. She assured me I was wrong, have nothing to be jealous of and Andre was just being nice. She welcomed me to come to the charity and check it out if I wanted. I told her I would like to meet this guy who likes rubbing my wife. She took the offer off the table because she is afraid of what I would do or say. She is no angry with me for being angry about this "back rub". She thinks I am acting crazy. We had dinner at her folks tonight. I told her I was going to bring up the situation and get the opinions of her parents and siblings. She got very angry so I didn't bring it up at dinner. I do trust my wife, I don't think she would cheat on me. How could I have handled this situation better? What would you have done?