Looks like Im single again...

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  1. Chigs

    Chigs Above the Waves VIP

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    The girlfriend is moving out tomorrow. We may try to pursue the relationship, as our main issue is how we are both becoming overly dependent on each other in different facets of our lives, but it is all up in the air.

    Bummed, but it may be exciting to have a new life. I have never been single in Denver.
     
  2. FtM

    FtM Starless & Bible Black Gold

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    I'm so sorry to hear that. I thought you would be getting more settled in with your new career and stuff. I hope the two of you can work it out.
     
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    bertman19 Well-Known Member VIP

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    Aren't you supposed to become more dependent on each other as you become a lifelong couple? You are building something together and you need to depend on each other for support of that something you are building. It sounds to me like one of you doesn't want to go any further.
     
  4. HaroldJackson

    HaroldJackson Well-Known Member Banned User

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    Oh good, we can party when I go out there in a couple months now.
     
  5. SIPAWITZ

    SIPAWITZ Bialy Whore Banned User

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    how much does she weigh?
     
  6. FatKidSullivan

    FatKidSullivan Director of Psychiatry: Dawg's Medical Services VIP

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    It's over. Sorry.
     
  7. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    You'll be better off. So, congrats! :c
     
  8. RH Goatcabin

    RH Goatcabin One Man Four Banner Mafia 2010 OG POTY The Bar VIP Gold

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    Time to thrust! :madsex:
     
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    Ridic Too2 New Member Banned User

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    Lucky shit.
     
  10. RH Goatcabin

    RH Goatcabin One Man Four Banner Mafia 2010 OG POTY The Bar VIP Gold

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    Things to do in Denver when you're dead...
     
  11. Stevie

    Stevie Well-Known Member VIP

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    Can I get her #?
     
  12. banksy

    banksy Bye, Felicia VIP

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    Have daddy buy an Oreck store for you to work at

    Lease a Mustang

    Wait...
     
  13. Shine

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    Somebody say heyyy you get new puuuuussssssssaaaaayyyyh
     
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    Did you move there for her?
     
  15. Chigs

    Chigs Above the Waves VIP

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    In theory, yes. The issue is she is becoming my mom, and I am like her dad. She is unemployed and I pay everything. In turn, I havent cooked, done laundry, or made a decision in since I cant remember. There is a chance that moving out will force us to get our own lives together, and be help the relationship...though who knows.
     
  16. HowardsPrenup

    HowardsPrenup Wakeup. Work. Workout. Partake. VIP

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    Sounds like you're already optimistic - good for you. Someone else will come along
     
  17. TripTo My Taint

    TripTo My Taint Well-Known Member

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    Moving out and seeing other people always strengthens relationships. Where's she moving to without a job? Parent's house?

    Start shaving your pubes off...it's time for fuckin' new girls again.
     
  18. Chigs

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    She is moving to a friends house who is looking for a roommate. She will get a job now, since she has to.
     
  19. Neesie

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    Or she'll find another guy to pay the bills.
     
  20. bertman19

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    So it sounds like the old nuclear family with a working father and housewife. The normal dysfunction. You each have something to contribute that compliment each other. Maybe she makes better decisions than you. Nothing wrong with letting her do that. It just sounds like you guys don't wanna be together.