mario, got a question for you

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  1. jdwhatever

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    This question is not to diss or make fun of you, I'm seriously curious. I remember when I graduated h.s., there was not question that I would be moving, and never coming back to live at my parents house, because I was raised with this idea, and it just always seemed like the right thing to do. The right thing because I let my parents move onto another phase of their life, I knew living with them would probably somehow slow down my adult process, and I didn't want to be enabled by them in anyway. Question is this: Don't your parents have those same thoughts in anyway, and don't you. I know you are Italian, and somehow thing this is a reason to live at home as a grown adult, but of course this is a silly idea, and excuse. Many of us are of Italian heritage and that thought never crosses our minds. Let me know your goals bub, let me know your dreams. Thanks in advance e bub.
     
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    splashwut
     
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    that's a comprehensive question the drugs must've wore off
     
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    you're asking a barback why he lives with his parents?
     
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    This thread will end in tears
     
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    its a question for an e bub out of concern and curiosity:dontknow::dontknow:
     
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    bartender could easily live on his own, maybe it would take roomates, but the moving on process would be a positive for our friend mario
     
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    got my own place (rental) at 17, bought my own house before age 23, no financial help from relatives
     
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    :wtf: ^^ zact samsies ^^ :wtf:
     
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    he's not a bartender
     
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    I made bout 8 bucks an hour when I lived with roomates in a shitty apartment. Fun times.
     
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    sorry mack, don't know what that means
     
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    Is it? Because it sounds/reads a little judgy.
     
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    how do you make a living? how much debt are you in?
     
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    Hows that.... its a question as to why he still lives with his Mom and Dad, because I feel it may hold him back. That's like telling fat kids they aren't fat but they are skinny and look great, because otherwise it would be judgy. Honesty with a little sting helps sometimes duuuuuuuude.
     
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    No my parents don't have those same thoughts and neither do I. They are the ones that wanted me to move back home. They love having me here I help out with the bills and stuff around the house. Im sorry that you and your parents are not close.
     
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    lulz @ jobless,drunk driving ,no car having,living with mommy and daddy faggots :bully:
     
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    little debt, because still have a mortgage, I don't buy new vehicles, because I find it a bad idea, and I used to have credit card debt years ago, but that was a lesson learned and I now don't, what I do for a living is my business, but I work bout 50 - 60 hours a week
     
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    That's how you tell yourself it's okay huh. Well that's cool man, glad you got yourself a job, keep up the good work.
     
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    Also I'm not an alcoholic like you so I'm not a burden on my parents and they don't have any regrets tears or disgust for having me around.