Okay....so I work and love making my own money. AND. .I always thought that everyone is supposed to work unless they have kids. Well. ..at work, my foreman asked me if I was going to stop working after I get married! We're not having kids! Then..I work with another guy whose kids are 15 and 19 and his wife doesn't work. Also...I go on this wedding forum where apparently it's normal to not work as a wife with no children. This boggles my mind! My fiancée and i get up at 4:30 every morning and we both work in the same field...construction. It's hard work...as all work is, I'm sure....but if I were the husband and my wife didn't work I'd get pretty resentful quick! Plus, the loss of income and a pension in the future. Any thoughts?