I hate to do this but i have been over it with out host and it's this vbulletin that killing us. Lets test it and see if thats true. Go to http://www.sterncult.com/ and sign up and lets test Xenforo. Now if that fixes the problem we will stay there if not we will come back. But we have to do something if we want to survive. Keep in mind it will be slow for a while over there because its on the same server. When i feel everyone has had a chance to get over there i will close the saloon temporally then reboot the server. then we will know for sure.