Long story short. Girl lives with my parents, As do I. We want to buy a house once the year ends but her brother needs a place to stay, by June. and we're not rrady, at least I'm not. Shell easily give her bro everything she can because she's awesome like that And he's a good kiD. How do I convince her to stop it? She's borderline getting fired from her well houred job and I'm just getting into the work force. Her bro is good and I like him but I feel like it's out of her hands at this point. (He's 18) She'd like to rent something for 1500 a month for a studio/1 bedroom and I'm just here thinking wtf is she thinking.