This morning I got the following text from my gf: "Are you happy? Do you still want to be with me?" I responded: "Where did that come from?" She replied: "Been thinking about a lot of stuff. I'd just like an honest answer." I responded: "I'm only not happy when we argue, which seems to be every weekend now." She replied: "Arguments come with relationships. But I don't enjoy them either. Unfortunately it's the only way I can get you to hear me even though it goes in one ear and out the other. We argue about the same things over and over, your unwillingness to show any sort of compassion or interest towards how I feel. I'm tired of being the selfless one. Outside of the arguing which is 99% of the time about things I'm sick of enduring every weekend for you, I don't break your balls about anything. I stay out of your way during the week and wait around until I hear from you. I've literally required zero effort from you and still tried to do anything you asked me to without complaining. I'm a damn good girlfriend, and I do a lot for you that you don't deserve. You want the arguing to stop? Then stop being an asshole towards the only woman besides your mother that still manages to love you deeply everyday knowing nothing will be given back in return. You don't have to give it 100%, hell you don't even have to give me 50. At this point I'll take whatever effort you can give. But I have to see something Larry. I have to feel something from you. I don't think that's too much to ask." I don't think I'm gonna respond to that.